Question by confusedman: Why does this girl not text back?
So I met this girl, went out on first date..went amazing she was smiling whole time and opened up. Got a second date a week later, which was yesterday and it went very well also. Talked whole time and I could tell she was interested..walked her to her apt building and made a move for a kiss and said good night. All is well.
So in between 1st and second date she takes like 4 hour + to respond to my texts and doesn’t ever text me. She just gives 1 line responses to what I say and that’s it. She didn’t even respond to this other one which I thought meant she wasn’t into me..but i texted her again and set the second date. So now after the date it’s the same shit. Barely answers, and doesn’t respond at all. Is this just some weird way to play hard to get? The vibe I got is that she is def into me. But when she texts it just seems cold. On the dates I would see her with her phone texting friends here and there. So i know she has that shit attached to her hand like every other girl. So should i jus keep texting her? When should 3rd date be?
I’ll add I have NOT been pushy with the texts. I literally sent like 4 over the whole week in between our dates. 2 of them were to confirm the second date. After last nights date, I texted her twice today within an hour. I mean, I don’t think she is playing me in any negative way. She doesn’t appear to be that type of girl from how she describes herself. We a mutual friend as well(coincidentally), and I know this girl wouldn’t be friends with the girl I am trying to date if she wasn’t cool/nice. Annnyway, I think those of you who say that she just might prefer phone calls/actually meeting up as opposed to texts are correct. I just HATE how texts have become so integral in this whole process.
Answer by Naomi ❤ (;
Wait For Her To Text You Back. And The 3rd Date Shouldnt Be Soon . Give Her time .
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