Women. They can be a source of frustration but also of much happiness. Women are responsible for a man’s happiness but also his misery. They can provide motivation or they can set up limits. How can you get along with a woman, but how can you live without her?

• There is no doubt that women provide many emotions for men. But if you find the women who is compatible with you and meets your needs, then you will have more ups then downs. More happiness than negativeness. The right woman can make all of your days seem sunny and bright with a great outlook. Where do you find such a woman? The answer is probably in the local bookstore rather than the local club. It might be a fun scene, but is that a scene you want to play in for the rest of your life?

• Where does one go to look for a girlfriend to truly be a girlfriend? Sure, you can find a partner for sex just about anywhere, but where do you look for a person who wants a meaningful relationship?

 

Locating the Women to Date

 

1.  Venture to the Real World.

 

• Have you taken a look at the people surrounding you every day? How many of them did you notice yesterday? Last week? How many of them could or are available for you to date or get to know better? There are probably attractive, smart and witty women who work in your office building but you were too busy looking elsewhere to stop and see them. Have you paid attention to who is pushing the grocery cart in the same aisle? How about who is using the dryer next to you at the laundry mat? The real world places are the best places to stop and take notice of who is around you. Strike up a conversation and practice your skills. You never know where it might land you with a girl. If it goes nowhere, then you aren’t out anything. If it progresses to a date or a relationship, then you have received a bonus.

2.  Meeting Women On the Web.

• Online dating is an animal that grew and grew over the last decade. And it is a huge industry and billions of dollars are spent on subscriptions and services related to trying to find the suitable match online. Is this something that can really work for you? Do you have an interest in meeting someone online that could end up being your partner? Find a site that caters to what you like best or what interests you have. For example, there are sites that focus on a specific religion, a specific careers and even types of hobbies. If any of them are what you want in a date, try them out first and see if you will have any luck.

• Online dating is an animal that grew and grew over the last decade. And it is a huge industry and billions of dollars are spent on subscriptions and services related to trying to find the suitable match online. Is this something that can really work for you? Do you have an interest in meeting someone online that could end up being your partner? Find a site that caters to what you like best or what interests you have. For example, there are sites that focus on a specific religion, a specific careers and even types of hobbies. If any of them are what you want in a date, try them out first and see if you will have any luck.

• Signing up for the sites initially is almost always free. However, if someone really sparks your interest, then most likely you are going to have to pay a membership fee or a subscription in order to get in touch with that person. Then you will have fallen in to the trap that other people fall in to. Is this person real and worth spending the money to contact or should you look elsewhere and hope for luck? If the picture is what you are attracted to, it might be worth moving on. However, if it is the description and the paragraph she wrote, then it might be worth the few bucks to reach out to her and see if she is too good to be true or your dream mate.

 

3.  Be Social and Aware.

• When you are just going out and doing your thing, you might be surprised at who you come in to contact with. And going out doesn’t mean the bars, but other places. Go out to the museum, the fundraiser your buddy’s kid is hosting, the baseball game, a hockey game or any other sporting event.  Being out with people is a good way to be in contact with a friend of a friend of a friend. It can bring you together with people you would otherwise not have contact with.  Go in with an open mind and enjoy it and continue with having fun and just see what happens. You can also practice your flirting and social skills with women and see where it leads you.

 

4.  Be Varied in the Places You Go.

• You will want to go out and be out, but mix it up and don’t be out in the same place, night after night. Even if you aren’t going to the bar, being at the baseball game every night of the week can get dull. You will also fall in to a routine of who is actually there that you can meet.

• Different girls like to do different things, so expand your own horizons in the process. An artsy girl will probably hang out at the art museum with her friends. A bookworm might hang out at the local bookstore. Explore them all and see what mix of girls you can find that interest you that could be a future relationship partner.

Women are social creatures and have a large social group. Expand your own social group and include more friends in the activities you do. The more friends you have the better you will be right? So there is never a harm in having more friends, whether they are male or female.