What should I do about my boyfriend that I found messaging other girls?

Question by Michelle: What should I do about my boyfriend that I found messaging other girls?
My boyfriend and I have been together about a year, and I have had suspicions that he was texting other girls because he would never let me see his phone. Well the other day I found messages asking other girls for “pictures” and telling them that they are really pretty. He told me that he wouldn’t ever do it again but I don’t know what to do. I love him, but I know I will never be able to forget about it.. What should I do?

Best answer:

Answer by GI Jane
Break up with him.. You’ve only been together a year and he’s already hurting you. It will not get better.

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2 thoughts on “What should I do about my boyfriend that I found messaging other girls?”

  1. That is a sign that he cannot be trusted. It’s easy for him to say that he won’t do it again. But the only reason he’s saying that is because he got caught. It does not mean that he’s going to stop. I think you need to let this go for about one week. Then one evening when he’s in good humor and you guys are just talking then tell him that you want to check his phone to see if he kept his promise. If he refuses to show you his phone and starts telling you that you should trust him then that will tell you that he didn’t keep his promise. If your boyfriend has nothing to hide then he won’t mind you taking a look at his phone. Your boyfriend needs to understand that he planted a seed in your head that he could not be trusted by sending messages to those girls. And now you need to tell him that you need proof that you can trust him. So, if he does not show you his phone messages then you know you are wasting your time with him.

  2. Michelle, DUMP HIM! He isn’t worth the time it took you to write this question. He obviously doesn’t keep to his word, this you know because you have found the evidence. Dump him unceremoniously and forget him, make him suffer because if he did love you then he wouldn’t even be thinking of sending these text messages to other females. He isn’t worth it, go look for someone who is more trustworthy, and by the sound of it, thaat won’t be so difficult. Good Luck and hope you have a very happy and prosperous new year.

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