what is my problem? cant talk to girls?

Question by johnjohntod: what is my problem? cant talk to girls?
im 17 and i have a huge problem with talking to girls. i just cant gain the courage to do it. i think that i can do it until i see a girl im attracted to and just cant do it. i want to be able to do this. please help me.

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Answer by Pudding Queen
Ya. I have the same problem. Only I can’t talk to guys 🙂 Sometimes, i try to figure out what there into and bring it up sometime during class or something. If you don’t really know anything about them, allot of people have a myspace so you can look her up on there. And just so you know, that is DEFINITELY not internet stalking. it’s totally normal. ok. maybe a little weird, but hey, you gotta do what you gotta do right?!

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  1. AWWW!!! I think its adorable when guys are shy talking to me. It shows that they care and arent total a**holes like some cocky guys. But being confident is sexy, too. Everyone has insecurities, and doesnt like at least one thing about themselves. The only way you can really come out of your shell is to talk to as much girls as possible, even ones you dont like. The more you talk to them, the more comfortable you’ll feel around them. It’s easier said than done, but it works. So when you become confortable with girls in general, it will be much easier to talk to ones you are attracted to. Honestly girls dont bite. They like talking to guys.. so just go for it!

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