Question by stacielovve: My boyfriend talks to other girls?
ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for about 5 months. Im not my boyfriends type, Im a white girl i dyed my hair black and i have pale skin im 5’5 96pounds . His type of girl is a tan skin brown eyes brown hair, and also short, and a girl that wears hollister, so kinda preppy. and knowing that im NOTHING like his type has made me insacure. He texts and talks to girls that are his type and it bothers me, i get so incredibly uncomfortable it makes me feel so sick. I know he should be allowd friends that are girls, but why cant i accept it? I feel like i need to accept him tlkaing to other girls. Its natural for him to have friends of the oppisit sex. I just dont understand why him talking to them is making me so upset. We almost broke up over this last night. he said im too controling, witch i probably am. this isnt healthy me getting upset about this right? How do i over come this? how can i be ok with him talking to other girls, even girls that are his type. I jsut want our relationship to be ok, no stress. especialy no stress over other people. When its just me and him we are perfect together. we are so happy together.. then when someone else comes in the picture, even if its just a text, I get insanly upset. it makes me so upset i throw up over this. Please , i neeed some good advise to make me feel ok with him tlakign to girls, even ones that are his type.
(i know he would NEVER cheat on me, and i know he would NEEVR get any thoguhts about any other girl, this is why im so confused as to why i feel this way. i trust him.)
Best answer:
Answer by hahaha
Ask him how it makes him feel when you text other guys, and that you just feel a little jealous. In every healthy relationship theres a little jealousy. I think you just need to trust him, and if things work out then perfect, if not, then it wasnt meant to be. DOnt break up over this, and dont stress about it anymore.
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