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Advice with texting girl I like..?

Question by enzodanny: Advice with texting girl I like..?
As lame as it sounds I did start talkin to a girl over facebook whos from a nearby town, although we both go to college in different states, so we haven’t met yet. It’s been a few weeks , and she told me when we first started talking how she got cheated on and was done with this dude & i was there for her a lil but i kept my distance for sure. so we texted a bit and a few nights ago she was hintin that she wanted me to come up and see her and i was cautious that it was just spur of the moment and she’d change her mind but the next morning she messages me on facebook askin when she can see me and saying i owe her a “cuddle sesh” . So my plan is to hang out with her when she comes back in two weeks for her spring break but until then, idk how to go about talkin to her, i dont want to text her everyday and scare her off or anything, i hope some people can relate cuz i want this to go right.

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Answer by Splashing Skies
If shes hinting on a cuddle session, you dont need to worry about scaring her off. Whatever you’re doing is working. Text her every 1-2 days to keep her interested and you need to flirt back now. Tell her she has pretty eyes or you think that she has an attractive personality. If you think she likes you then tell her you like her back, but bringing this up in person would be more beneficial for you. The more flirting and deep conversations you can have in person, the more feelings she will have for you. Dude the apple is ripe here, so get ready to pick it.

So start texting her right now and remember: be confident! Girls will love you if you’re confident about yourself, and if you make them confident about themselves too.

Need more advice, email me. Good luck man!

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Q&A: need some advice on talking to girls…?

Question by alex: need some advice on talking to girls…?
well i grew up fat so my self-esteem broke along time ago, i am completely lost when it comes to talking to girls
the only time i really talk to girls is to help them with their relationship troubles
i get very red when i talk to them, fml big time

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Answer by ♥Jenna♥
Girls don’t have a language,just talk normally
Ask them questions and then when they ask you a questions just breathe and answer normally
See? We’re not that complicated -_-

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Q&A: GIRL Problems Need Advice!?

Question by Yaseen: GIRL Problems Need Advice!?
Ive been texting this girl for a few weeks, but its been small talk, like what u doing, whats up? Random stuff, how can i move up a few levels, get her to confide in me, what should i say? Last night we really connected i found out that we had a lot in common. One thing i find allways works if she trusts me she loves me but with this girl i cant find to gain her trust
We are in 10th grade if that helps
Also whats a good way to flirt with someone who plays hard to get?
How do i get closer to her?

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Answer by Love You!
Tell her cute things and give her compliments.

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my boyfriend has been texting this girl…i need advice!?

Question by 1qaz2wsx: my boyfriend has been texting this girl…i need advice!?
so i just found out that my boyfriend has been texting this girl for a while.
i didn’t know this…the chick says that they are Just friends..
but my friends saw texts on her phone of her and my bf talking about taking a shower together and that would be “super hot, but you would never do it.” <--that's what he said. when i asked the chick about it, she said that it was just joking around. but i guess he did call her "babe" on multiple occasions. so my question is, i know this isn't cheating, but they've been flirting and he's called her hot and "babe" is that ok? or should i be mad about that... Best answer:

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Advice on texting this girl, please?

Question by urepkj: Advice on texting this girl, please?
so I just got this girls number a couple days ago and we’ve been talking/texting a lot. My question is…she texted me the first two days and then I texted her the third..its now the next day, should I text her now or wait for her to text me????
thanks!!!

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Answer by Mack
just text her 🙂

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Advice on texting girls?

Question by numbaonestunna: Advice on texting girls?
So this is a bit of a story.

2 weeks ago, me and this girl met at a club. We were both extremely drunk. She came home with me and the rest of the night is history. The next morning we woke up at the same time and we were gonna puzzled/dazed haha but nonetheless she stayed, we talked for a while got to know each other and she eventually said she wanted to sleep for a little longer. So two hours later she wakes up and leaves and I didn’t think anything more would come of it.

Later that day she texted me asking me saying “Heyyy i left my ring at your place can you keep an eye out for it” and that eventually lead to a conversation. We talked for a few days, just getting to know each other, etc.

So this is my problem. I can’t figure her out. She is a weird texter. For about an hour she will seem completely involved with what were talking about and send me like paragraph responses and stuff and other times she will just respond with two words. We have hung out once since then on halloween I went to her cousins house with her to watch a movie but nothing happened physically. Ive also come to notice that she is not very flirty. Also, it seems like I have initiated most of the conversations we’ve had. However, if she falls asleep at night when we are texting, she will text me the next morning or afternoon. I am actually beginning to get a crush on her and I just want to know what I should do to make me more desirable to her. It seems like she is slowly starting to drift away from the texting and stuff. My brother told me to not text her until she texts you first and if she doesn’t, move on.

Any advice?

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Answer by RileyClarke14
Girls are like that, they con be confusing, just dont change your mood, act the same throughout 😉

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Im so new to this someone advice on what to text back plz?

Question by Outa this world ha.: Im so new to this someone advice on what to text back plz?
Im eighteen im not no little girl or anything like that its just i’ve never had a real boyfriend or anything kinda nervous to what to text him or what i have to say what do you like getting back or what should i text back? Conversation is like

HIM: Hey
ME: Hey babe, what are you doing?
HIM: Thinking about you

What am i supposed to text back?

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Answer by Chase
aw 🙂

smile or something lol

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Q&A: When guys ask fr advice about a girl does it mean something?

Question by Delilah: When guys ask fr advice about a girl does it mean something?
I just asked a question bout this guy that I think likes me. Yesterday when he was at my house he was texting this girl that he likes and asked me for advice about what to say to her and he kept asking. I’m two years younger than him! Does this mean he likes me?? I kinda already think he does. So is he tryin to make me jealous?? Guys are hard to figure out!! 😛 thanks!

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Answer by pleiades
umm no he was sincerely asking for advice,

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Q&A: Advice on texting a girl i like? How can i grab her attention and make her laugh whilst texting?

Question by Jon: Advice on texting a girl i like? How can i grab her attention and make her laugh whilst texting?
Ive texted this girl before but i think things seem to be bland and boring when we text and i wanna change that 🙂

Just generally, whats the best way to text a girl that you like? And any ideas what to send for the first text message?

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Answer by glitzy
how about you just call her and ask her out?
hmmm…?

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How to talk to girls in class? I don’t want to startle them or make them feel scared/uncomfortable, any advice?

Question by jirmantogo: How to talk to girls in class? I don’t want to startle them or make them feel scared/uncomfortable, any advice?
So I am in college and I have a difficult time trying to talk with girls. All the other guys do it with ease and yet its hard for me to do so. Do you guys have any advice? Should I be energetic or keep it low key? What should I do?
Thanks

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Answer by Shayla
Just sit next to someone and make small talk, don’t ask too many questions because then it makes it look like your desperate ._. Keep it in between energetic and low key, too energetic makes it look like your a psycho xD. Just be yourself is mostly what you gotto do 🙂 Hope this helped!

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