Question by Hyrule: Girl I like does not text back?
So since I came into uni, I have met this really kind, most beautiful girl in the world. We talk about funny stuff and laugh with each other when meeting her in person. She even asked for my number first rather than me asking her when we met. The thing is though, whenever I message her on whatsapp or just sms, she replies in a really simple/short way, doesn’t really carry on the conversation, I dunno, maybe I am being too cynical or bratty, but does this mean that I should give up on her? Like, she complimented my hairstyle, even though its terrible, and like stroked my hair when I rested my head on her lap after watching a horror film together with some other girls/guys, I think the stroking part maybe a bit condescending…..I am not sure…..what u think?
I asked my sis this, she said that YOU have to make the move, the boys must do this. You have to be bold from now on lil bro. Since I was born, I was and am a really nervous guy, especially when approaching girls, so I just let them try to approach me, or at least show me that they like me sincerely. She said that it will be extremely hard for you to get girls like that. So she suggested just ask her out for some harmless coffee, but I can’t even do that, I don’t want to get heart broken like before. The first time I asked a girl out, I gave her a love letter, and this was extremely hard for me and nervous, and in the end, she said no, gave it back, and said that she liked some other guy. I still remember that and I cannot recover from it, I always think that something similar might happen to me if I do ask or become too eager towards her. I again told this to my sister, she said that guys must have several broken hearts to find the right girl.
So in the end, should I stop texting her? Like, if I keep on texting her again and again, I am afraid she might find me too annoying. I dont text her too often, like maybe once a week
Answer by Erm
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