Question by George: can anyone help me with my social anxiety disorder and talking to girls?
i cant talk to girls up close even if i know them i can only talk to them on Facebook or over text and as i have notice girls don’t really like boys who don’t talk to them first when they meet in person. when i get close to a girl i start to shake, sweat and my heart beats very fast also the word don’t come out and i don’t know what to do does anyone have any advice? does drinking alcohol help?
Answer by Tony
Try not to think that much about girls. It only comes naturally when you’re socializing. If you can;t do that, you’re better off being gay 😛
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Hey, I’m a girl! and I have an anxiety disorder, (if that helps?..) So i’ll tell you boys from my point of view.
When talking to any girl. You need to pretend like you’re talking to your best friend. So when you talk to that special girl, pretend she’s your long time friend or something like that. It should relax you a bit.
Next, We’re just girls! We are JUST as self conscious as anyone maybe even more depending on the person. Just crack some jokes, Lean back, and breathe. It should come naturally. Best of luck! 🙂
First of all think that she is also a human being like you lol.. then dont try to impress her, be as yours. be practical. u no need to prepare any impressive words and way of approach. just approach like if you meet ur close friend. girls appreciate flirtings, jokings when only in the chatting as u said facebook, orkut etc. but when u need a serious relationship with her , u have to be polite and bold in talking. then only she consider you as lovable guy and try to maintain a relationship with real life.