Question by Janemay: Another case of the text to another girl…?
I’ve been seeing this man for about 3 months now. Things are cool between us. Not too serious, We’re just taking it slow. He says he doesn’t want a girlfriend because he doesn’t have the time for one. Anyways, I found texts in his phone to another girl talking about “good morning, beautiful” she said she wasn’t feeling well and he said to her “someone needs to make you dinner” she said she looks terrible and doesn’t want to see anyone. He said ” well, we need to see the good and bad of each other”. I confronted him about it and he insisted she is just a good friend and they’ve known each other for a very long time. I am not oblivious and wasn’t born yesterday. Obviously, Hes got a thing for her. I know they never see eachother because He is very busy and spends a majority of his free time with me. He said that him and her are nothing like him and I. nonetheless, It’s crap that he’s lying to me. I told him I need to talk to him about it but if he keeps on lying what am I suppose to do? How do you think I should handle this situation?
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Answer by George
you shoulda waited a bit longer, because some people actually are close friends with people like that, it mighta just been harmless flirting, some guys do have that girl that they just like to text like that. if you are so sure hes cheating or doing something wrong, then why are you on yahoo answers? alotta guys like to still talk to girls when they have a girlfriend, sorry to tell you that.
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Ive had the same thing happen to me, its really hard to tell if hes telling the truth of course you want to believe him but at the same time somethings telling you to dump the prick. If he says their just friends, the majority of the time hes telling the truth but it their texts are really frequent and he starts ignoring you when your over to text her than theyve got something going. Just keep confronting him about it. Goodluck xoxo.
Why would you hang around if you think he is lying? First of all its only been 3 months and he should be allowed to end any friendships he may have at his own pace. He did tell you he didn’t want to be in a relationship. So if you need more from a relationship then he isn’t the one for you. Good luck!
I have 2 older brothers, I’ve learned a few things about guys not only from having two brothers but also having guy friends…so, that being said…
where he said “he doesnt want a gf because he doesn’t have time for one” might be true, but in most cases, he just doesn’t want you to be that girl.
you sound like you’re a smart girl, if you want to be lied to, stay with him. If not, walk away because if he’s doing this right now…3 months and not even together…imagine if you guys were together..he’s a guy..thats what guys do.
If you can deal with him texting his “friend” then continue seeing him & expect nothing but friendship from this man. However if you are looking for a relationship you need to let him go. Doesn’t sound like they are “just friends” to me. If so why does “someone need to make her dinner” or “need to see the good & bad of each other”. How do you know they never see each other or how much free time he actually have??