Q&A: Advice on texting a girl i like? How can i grab her attention and make her laugh whilst texting?

Question by Jon: Advice on texting a girl i like? How can i grab her attention and make her laugh whilst texting?
Ive texted this girl before but i think things seem to be bland and boring when we text and i wanna change that ๐Ÿ™‚

Just generally, whats the best way to text a girl that you like? And any ideas what to send for the first text message?

Best answer:

Answer by glitzy
how about you just call her and ask her out?

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9 thoughts on “Q&A: Advice on texting a girl i like? How can i grab her attention and make her laugh whilst texting?”

  1. How about you stop being a child and CALL HER. Then if she laughs, you’ll be sure.

    You damn kids and your texting I tell you….

  2. Some people are just not good at being witty online or via text. Don’t let the relationship fizzle because you’re not “textually” compatible. Try it the old fashioned way and call her via a telephone. . .

  3. Call her!!!!!! If you don’t (witch is a bad idea ) THan say dude alot or lol or ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜› a lot too!

  4. Say something that makes her think your funny and that you like her. If you two don’t like this one person make a funny comment about them. If she’s smart make a joke about something nerdy, and If she’s really nice well then make a joke about something not too mean..

  5. Flirting in text messaging is not much more different then flirting in real live. It’s just easier.


    Most people will say that women have it easy when it comes to texting. That’s because men do the approaching and women probably send 100 times more text messages then men so you are better at communicating.

    Now here’s where girls goof up: women send boring one liners. For example, if a guy sends a message to a women like “Hey what up, did you go over to that party last night?” He can almost expect 50% of the time she is going to answer with a one line answer that has no question attached to it, for example: “No I didn’t.” That kind of answer is called boring and leads to nothing. Really the cell phone should block those messages and return the message saying “put some life in your message.” The worst part is, most of these women are ruining their chances and they don’t even know it. Any quality guy will move on to more interesting conversations. Now, if a women had a good response to that message it would look something like this: “No I didn’t, I didn’t want to make you jealous you?” You see, now the guy can respond and start building off what you are saying and most importantly it’s FLIRTY.


    As in real life, women and men differ when it comes to text messaging. So guess who does the approaching? Yes, men. Us men get the number and then we initiate the conversation. After years of coaching men on how to be successful with women I have concluded that most men have no clue about how to text women. What usually happens is that most men when they text women go into default mode and send message to women like they are sending messages to friends. Men burn themselves by sending these normal day-to-day conversation words like “how are you?” “I am out of class, that teacher was boring.” “What are you doing?” These messages are boring, they do nothing to women and your success with them go down the drain.

    Key point for men: you need to send messages that make women feel something. For example lets change those last messages to something more flirty: “Hey honey” “I was just in class and the teacher there reminded me of you, except she was cuter.” “Hey we are heading to a party, you should come?” You don’t get on a roller coaster because it’s boring, you get on it because you know you are going to feel something and she will text you and desire you if you can create that same feeling. To learn more textingadvice.com shows men exactly what text messages women love to read

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