Question by J.D.: My convos are boring. How can I spice up a conversation with a girl that I’ve talked about everything with?
I’ve talked to this friend (girl) for about 2 years. We text each other every night but recently our conversations have died, dulled, and become boring. I’ve begun to really like this girl since shes been with me through everything but what can i do to make our conversations at night more interesting?
Answer by Jake
flirting tends to help. Cold? i can help warm you if i was there… etc
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5 thoughts on “My convos are boring. How can I spice up a conversation with a girl that I’ve talked about everything with?”
yes… start flirting that’s fun!
play truth or dare, 20 questions, flirt, compliment. maybe call her instead of a text?
Evaluate if you two are more than friends, this is important, you can’t have certain conversations with a girl who is strictly a friend.
But if there is relationship material then that’s where I would start. “Hey did you think there’s more than a friendship between us?” It just a start. don’t be shy, you all have been talking for a while. Just don’t blow it with something foolish, spicy and inappropriate are two different things. Good Luck.
flirt, say ridiculous things.
Don’t text so much! It takes all the fun and mystery out of things when you talk all the time, and becomes routine.
Why not just hang out with her in person? Are you interested in dating her? Or just as some platonic friend? If it’s dating, you should definitely cut back on the constant communication, and just use texting to do brief, funny flirts, and call only to plan dates. If it’s platonic, give yourself a few days in between talking, so you actually have time for stuff to happen you can talk about.