Question by John: i just had a 7 hour non stop text conversation with a girl. How can I translate that into real life?
I was texting this girl I like for about seven hour with very minimal breaks basically like ten minutes at the most and that was when I didn’t feel my phone vibrate which didn’t happen often. My question is how can I carry a long conversation with her in real life?
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Answer by Jack
7 hour TEXT? dude call herrrr next time.
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Start off with small talk and it will develop. Tips on things NOT to talk about: Sex, exes, and a relationship.
Sounds like you both can talk quiet a bit. I think you will be just fine when you see her. Remember it’s okay for silence or pauses when you’re hanging out with something.
GOOD GRIEF!
meet up with her and start talking; and whenever there’s an awkward pause bring up the subject of awkward pauses. It’ll give you both something to laugh about and then you can develop more talking points from there
Next step: Call her on the phone and ask her to go to dinner or a movie with you. It might sound fast, but trust me, this is how you pace a relationship. If you don’t ask her soon, you run the risk of entering the friend zone. On the date, insist on paying, that way, you’re confirming that this get together is a date and she would have to be completely oblivious not to know that. The last thing you want is to take a girl out on a date and for her to say, “oh, I thought we were just hanging out as friends”. Take her out to some place nice (it doesn’t have to be a four course meal, just not McDonalds). Treat her like a lady and she’ll start to see you as a gentleman.