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I have trouble talking to girls and have very little social skills?

Question by jack: I have trouble talking to girls and have very little social skills?
So yea I’m almost 24 years old and I have trouble talking to girls and trying to make new friends. My social skills suck. I feel like I’m always gonna get rejected. For me to even talk to a girl at a party, bar, club I need to already have a few drinks in me! I’m more comfortable going out with my friends talking and drinking with them but when it comes to new people especially girls I just freeze and it sucks. So any advice from some girls? Guys welcome to answer.

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Answer by dandymomma
Don’t meet girls at bars. Meet them at the grocery store, or someplace that isn’t quite as intimidating as the bar. Make your primary goal to be friendly, not to end up sleeping with someone, You could try on-line dating. You wouldn’t have to talk to anyone face to face until you were really ready to, or create a Facebook page or something and start networking with your friends. Some of the best hookups come from being introduced through a mutual friend.

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2 Responses to I have trouble talking to girls and have very little social skills?

  1. loovontatt says:

    to be negative will always attract negativity …….you need to be and think what you want in resaponse to your requests

    be positive and it will always be a positive outcome

    blessings x

  2. J C says:

    I understand where you’re coming from. I’ve got the same problem sometimes. The best advice I can give you is to just be yourself. Grab your jewels and go up to the girls and just start with small talk. They will either like you for you or not. If they don’t, then brother, they aren’t worth your time and effort!

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