Question by T-Mac: I freeze up with I talk to girls?
I just dont know whats wrong with me, all I know is that whenever I see a hot girl and she talks to me, I dont respond because my mind is blank and my heart is racing. If a girl even says hey or whats up, I dont answer because im so nervous, if I do answer my voice is all weird and I feel like a jackass.
Some occasions I dont even have to be talking to the girl, like at school in the halls, a friend with a hot girl walks by, the guy says whats up, I say nothing because the girl is hot and im so nervous, I just continue walking, and I end up looking like a total jackass and feel weird after, what the hell is wrong with me.
Yeah, im in highschool.
Answer by gharson
you probably just need to be around and talk to girls more often.
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3 thoughts on “I freeze up with I talk to girls?”
Just don’t think about it as much. All day you are probably thinking about hot girls and you get yourself all worked up. I used to be the same way when I was younger. You should get better when you get older. I am 19 now and I think it is easier for me to talk to girls than guys. Even if she is the hottest girl ever I can carry a good conversation with her. Gradually you will become more comfortable talking to girls. Just have confidence in yourself and you will be fine.
You experience a case of the jitters. Don’t be so nervous! Girls like confidence. I can completely understand why you are nervous. You might be worried you’ll be rejected. Don’t worry. You sound like a great guy f/m what I read in your question. A lot of people feel just as nervous as you do. I’m sure that if you let girls see that great guy in you they will love to be around you! Take chances! Make mistakes! Get messy! 😀
Bro! lighten up. They are just girls and your just in high school. There are plenty of good looking women in your future and don’t get worried about high school chicks. I’m a junior and most of the girls in my class are pretty slutty so it’s easy to not take them seriously.
I don’t mean to sound demeaning, but you literally need to act like all girls are the same. Once you do this, than its easy to be yourself. And if you make a complete jackass of yourself…who cares! There are thousands of girls just like that “hot chick” that was walking with your friend. You need to be alpha. Alpha is not the strongest nor the fastest nor the smartest. Alpha is having a no fear attitude. Basically knowing you’re the man and not giving a damn what anyone thinks.
Eye contact shows confidence. Fake it till you make it!