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I found an inappropriate conversation my boyfriend had with another girl should I dump him?

Question by Jenette: I found an inappropriate conversation my boyfriend had with another girl should I dump him?
I’m not sure what to make of his. I have found these conversation my boyfriend had with this girl. I think she’s an ex girlfriend. My boyfriend was the one who text her first and asked her questions like if she found a boyfriend yet, and he said she’s still single but interested in someone. My boyfriend then asked her if she still looks at porn and horny. The girl made it clear that he is aware that he’s in a relationship and long story short he had asked her if he still has feelings for him and she said alittle and she asked him the same question and he told her that he can’t answer that question but that she was a really nice girl. He wants to remain in contact with this girl but this girl said that she has to respect that he has a girlfriend so only contact her once in awhile.
There is no possible way to list their entire conversation but this girl appears to be innocent and she doesn’t want to ruin our relationship.
The girl said that she thinks it would be a good idea not to talk anymore and my boyfriend appeared to want to keep in contact with her for whatever reason.

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Answer by Kennedy
i was in a similar situation.. dump him before it gets worse and hurts even more

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2 Responses to I found an inappropriate conversation my boyfriend had with another girl should I dump him?

  1. Sam says:

    hes made it clear to her that he cant answer the question they both asked eachother, and that she has to respect that hes dating you, so he should only keep contact once in a while. She ahs made it clear, you said, that she doesnt want to ruin you guys, and that so just let it go, and pretend that you didnt read the convo. If it happens again, then ask him what is up.. but for now, just let it go and pretend nothing has happened.

  2. ♥Smitty Werben Jager Man Jensen♥ says:

    Yeah, it’s definitely time to dump him. There is absolutely no reason for him to be sending other girls suggestive text messages asking if they watch porn, if they’re single, if they have feelings for him and whatnot. Sounds to be like he wants to get with her, but she will not allow it.

    I guarantee you that this guy will cheat on you if he ever has the opportunity. If not with her, than someone else. Drop him before it goes any further and find a guy who is 100% committed to YOU, not still stuck on his ex girlfriend.

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