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How to talk to a girl you havent talked to before?

Question by Daniel: How to talk to a girl you havent talked to before?
there are a few girls I am interested in at my school that are in a few of my classes but I havent talked to them yet thus far in the school year. I’m wondering if it is weird to try to iniate conversation and talk to girls half way through the year kinda out of no where if I haven’t spoken to them before?

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Answer by elizsaa
don’t freak them out, start off slow! maybe a smile, or eye contact. then after ask for help on like classwork or something.

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5 Responses to How to talk to a girl you havent talked to before?

  1. zack says:

    No it isnt weird im in a similar situation bro i feel ur pain. And at the end of the day we have to get the guts and just say hi.

  2. fictionalfact says:

    I’m having the same problem with some guys I kinda like. Well.. I would be pretty flattered if a guy came up to me and talked to me out of the blue. Its happened to me before, and it is a bit of a shock, but in a good way. It depends on the girl i guess. If they are all super popular girls they might not notice or care. I was shy when it happened to me, not allot of guys approached me. But when they did it really made my day 🙂

  3. Chance says:

    no it is not weird! nothing is ever really weird…
    just say hi randomly!
    they’ll wonder about your for the rest of the day 🙂
    especially if you havn’t talked too them yet..it seems a little mysterious,
    hmm, write a joke on a piece of paper and hand it too one of them.
    idk, get creative! girls LOVE LOVEEEE LOVEEE creativity ^_^
    hehe<3
    plus, it's never gonna hurt too get experience..you know?
    you can't wonder "what if this" or "what if that"
    so go for it!
    JUST...don't do it too fast.
    just be subtle at first,
    say hi a few times, and smile,
    then give her a compliment.
    sometimes girls need time to warm up..
    and dont do anything creepy like waiting around for them.
    you have a life too!
    and hmmm...
    girls love (even though we dont wanna admit it haha)
    when a guy acts hard too get.
    i mean a little not too much 😛
    like first be like "hi ____"
    then make eye contact the next class you have with her.
    then ignore her for a week. then ask her for her number, etc.
    or other than that would do.

    just don't give up. love is out there :)))
    good luck! 🙂
    peace<3

  4. RobbVann says:

    What the first girl said to you is good advice. Also, try a little gift like candy that you know she likes or just something fun from the dollar store. Halfway through the year doesn’t mean anything. good luck!

  5. abenajjarine says:

    This what you do………….you have your friend or friends stand next to her, then you ask them a question out loud, something like, “do you know when spring break is?” and your friends say, “I don’t know”. Then you turn to the girl and ask her the same question (after hearing you ask the people next to her, she won’t find it weird that you’re asking her). After she answers, you say thank you then proceed to ask another question, at this time, your friends will jump in and answer the next question. Now you, the girl, and you’re friends are all involved in this conversation. You and your friends continue to bring up other stuff that you all talk about and BAM, you and that girl are now friends.

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