Question by Grey: How to be better and talking to girls?
I’ve recently started university and there are a lot of really interesting and pretty girls everywhere, but I’m no good at chatting up girls. I barely have any female friends at all; maybe girls just don’t find me interesting, so obviously from what I’ve just mentioned, you would be correct to assume I have never had a girlfriend. But i want to change that now that I’m in university– I don’t mean I’m looking for a girlfriend specifically– I just mean I would like to also have female friends and to be better at talking to girls. I just find it hard; maybe I’m too self conscious or it’s psychological or something! Like today, I sat opposite this REALLY pretty girl on the bus home and I couldn’t say a word to her… in fact, I couldn’t even raise my head to look in her direction so I spent the whole journey looking at my feet! I know what you’re probably thinking: this guy is pathetic. You’re probably right to say that, but I want to change it. So please, any tips on how to be better at conversing with girls? I would really appreciate feedback from actual girls on this matter, but guys are more than welcome to share some tips as well, please. Thanks. 😉
Answer by lauren.
Be yourself and ask their opinions on things.
Inside tip: Our game is ‘hard to get’. Please don’t use it against us too much.
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