Question by FriedEgg: How do you I talk to girls without panicking or having a nervous breakdown?
I am not homosexual.
Every time I a girl tries to talk to me or I attempt to talk to a girl, I get this nervous feeling in my gut. It maybe that if I try to be myself, I am afraid that it might scare people away or cause any harm.
Best answer:
Answer by Surprised Cat
Hi!
You don’t have to worry about scaring other people.
You don’t have to wish the girls are interested in you.
You don’t have to be afraid that you’ll be nervous, either.
I wish you’ve got relaxed and better after reading!
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Actually the nervous feeling in your gut proves you’re NOT homosexual. It’s okay to be nervous around girls, but that shouldn’t hold you back from talking to us. Why is it that when you feel like you’re trying to be yourself, you think you will scare people away? It’s true… you might. But do you want those people to be your friends anyways? You want friends who like you for who you really are, so go ahead and be yourself! The people who really care about you will stick around.
Now as for talking to girls, there’s a foolproof way to talk to us without putting much effort out on yourself. Ask us QUESTIONS. Everyone likes to talk about themselves, and girls especially. They can be easy questions like, “What did you do this weekend?” or “I really didn’t get this homework, did you?” Find something you can start a conversation with, and keep it going. Make sure you don’t as questions that could get one word answers. Use your charisma and wit and it will become easy after time. The art of conversation is exactly that – an Art. It takes time to develop but it all pays off in the end. Good luck!