Question by mathew: Help with a girl!?! Texting?
I known this girl for about two months and we texted for like everyday should I not text her for a day and she lives 6 hours from we and we haven’t met
Best answer:
Answer by Charles
LOWER YOUR FREQUENCY EACH WEEK TO A FEW DAYS AND THEN ONLY ON WEEKENDS OR A FEW DAYS A WEEK.
Know better? Leave your own answer in the comments!
You’ve got to decide what approach you wanna go for.
You can either ‘play’ the dating game and stop texting her for a bit. Make her text you first. This will ‘test’ her enthusiasm so to speak. See if she likes to enough to text that day, or if she simply waits for you to text.
Personally, from a girl’s perspective, this can be a bit annoying. But each to their own, so I don’t know what she’d think.
Or you can forget the whole dating game thing and just text her like you normally would. This doesn’t necessarily mean every day, because if you haven’t got anything to say then don’t bother, but don’t hesitate to reply/text just because you think it’s too soon.
From a girl’s perspective, we like it when boys text a lot. It shows they’re into us, right? 😉
It’s up to you. I know some boys think they’re being needy/desperate/clingy if they text a lot, but actually most girls just think it’s cute 🙂
Up to you though, good luck x
blahhh
I think not texting her could confuse her. How about suggesting like a skype session?
get several other girls to text with so you lower your frequency of texting with that one girl. keep all your options open, ever after you are in a relationship. it’s not over, till it’s over (married with kids.) then it’s REALLY over