Question by Renee: Guys, if you text a girl first do you feel like you are annoying her? I’ll answer yours!?
This guy NEVER texts me firsts. It’s really obnoxious to always have to start a conversation. I feel like he doesn’t want to talk me. I asked him about it and he says that he’s feels “annoying” when he texts people first. But I really dont mind. Guys, do you feel the same way or is he ditching me? Girls, do u feel annoyed if a guy texts you first? Thanks so much!!
Best answer:
Answer by Ashely
I feel the same way if I text a guy first. But I think most guys like it if girls text first
Give your answer to this question below!
This has one of two obvious answers. It depends 100% on if he’s into you or not.
If I’m into a girl and she texts me as long as it’s not 100 messages before I respond I’m usually pretty happy about it.
If I’m not into a girl and she texts me hoping to have a conversation I’m kind of down on the whole idea.
100% if he’s into you dictates whether he’s happy or unhappy you texted him.
When I was twelve, I had trouble with texting first. But if you are older, Just send him a simple Hey. It can’t hurt. Ask if he wants to hangout sometime. Some guys are nervous around girls and can’t think logically (I’m sadly one of them). So, If you like him, maybe you should make the first move?