Sending a Girl Cute Texts
- Imagine a situation here. You have a smartphone with an interested girl on the other end. You’ve been texting and interacting at a high level so far. How do you ramp up the texts so that she knows you are interested in going to the next level? How can you keep her interested with the positive momentum? It might be a situation that gets you stumped as to how to proceed.
- Do you send a cute text to pull her back in or are you out for attention grabbing? What is proper for someone you just met? How do you even know what a cute text is!? There are a lot of different ways to proceed, as long as you know how.
Following are some tips on what to send:
1. Send a funny joke.
- A joke will set the pace where you send a text and wait for a response so that you can send a short quip back to her. These are meant to be short and flirty messages and not long, drawn out discussions over something. The shortness of the joke allows for interaction, a way to make her keep thinking of you and keep the energy of the relationship moving forward.
- The goal is to always move forward in a relationship and a short and funny joke will allow you to do just that. There won’t be an awkward lull if you have a funny joke in your back pocket – or draft box – to send along.
2. Send Clean Pictures
- Some tactics with texting can be used over again and will remain relevant. One new way to keep in touch is to send out pictures. This is a new method just gaining steam as more and more people have smartphones with graphic capabilities. Take a picture of something nice near you – scenery, the setting at work, a clean room in your apartment, whatever. Make it be something interesting that could be a sparker for conversation and keep the interest level high. Some examples could be what you are cooking, wearing, seeing in person or where you are working out. And taking a picture is much easier than having to draw something out by hand!
3. Take Advantage of Notepad
- This isn’t text messaging, but it is technology that can advance your relationship. Since most guys have no clue on what to talk about in the beginning, let alone know how to compete over loud noise, then the notepad will do quite nicely. In a club where the beat is thumping, instead of yelling, do something smarter. And more sophisticated. And something she might consider totally sexy. Take out your smartphone and explain the Notepad app to her. Take notes with it and use it as a way to start a conversation or at least one later when it isn’t so loud. If she has a smartphone then you can even converse back and forth, flirt or trade contact details if you don’t already have them. This trick might get you faster results than you could have ever imagined because it makes you look smart, fun and truly interested in them. But keep it cool and don’t resort to childish emoticons when you can’t find something to say. Be clever and witty and you will have all kinds of interest shown in you. They will respond accordingly.
4. Plant the seed for future events.
- If you are making the effort to get someone’s phone number, there is a reasoning behind it. You wanted their number for a reason and that was to get to know them better and see if there was a possible relationship in the future with them. Therefore, when something interesting pops up, make mention of it in a text. Throw the seed out there and mention it would be something fun the two of you can do. If there is a positive response, then your seed was planted well. If there is no response, then it might be time to go to plan B and find something else interesting that might be more fun. Or you can simply move on to another girl that would find the event fun and interesting. Planting the seed will help you determine which girl will want to be the one you pick to attend with you and possible start conversation going ahead of time. And the conversation will keep the relationship progressing before the event even gets there.
5. Use Role play to Your Advantage.
- Exaggeration is one of the key elements to humor. When you are texting a girl, make fun of the situation by exaggerating it extensively to get a laugh or two out of them. Create a fantasy situation where you know it will get at least a chuckle out of them. When she plays along with the role, then you are interacting and moving the relationship along in a fun way.
- Experiment to see what situations work best to elicit a response. Use what matches your personality and what you think their personality would respond to. Practice will make this situation perfect, so try and try again with different women if it doesn’t work with the first one.
Use the cute texts or jokes as a starting point if you need to and exaggerate on those.