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Best Tips for Texting the Girl You Like

There are ways to becoming a master of texting. There are a lot of different ways to flirt using the phone technology and it will take some getting used to, so don’t feel bad if you don’t feel like a master overnight. Here are some ways to practice your flirting techniques over technology.

Practice on IM

  • Use a few different methods to talk to girls. When you have experience on several of them, then the art of conversing with them becomes that much easier. SMS texts are faster too, so thinking on your toes will become part of the process and you will quickly become a master of communicating with the opposite sex.

Keep the Conversation Flowing

  • Keeping the texts flowing is good. Not only does it get you practice, but it keeps the communication open. Use only smart texts that have a point, but make sure to send the on occasion to keep things moving and forward instead of awkward. A picture or an emoticon will always lighten the mood, too.

Make Sure to Flirt

  • Flirting can be done by sending an emoticon, a funny picture from your files, a picture you pulled off the Internet or even a joke someone told you at work. If you can’t find a funny and appropriate emoticon, those can be searched over the Internet as well so you can come up with a holiday themed one or a funny one. Use as many ways you can think of to flirt and you will remain in the girl’s mind over someone else.

What to Text a Girl You Like

There are a lot of ways to flirt and text a girl that you like. And texting is different than talking, so you will have to learn that skill like you would any other going on. Follow some basic tips so you have success in every method you are trying to reach the girl through.

Be Subtle

  • Be clear about your point, but not too direct. The message could hint at something so it gets her mind working. And send one text, not 20 on the same idea in a short period of time. Then you look pathetic and stalkerish instead of cool and suave.

Be Humorous

  • Send her texts that she will find funny. The funny texts could be a short knock knock joke, a picture from your own files or something a friend told you. Make sure it is funny and not offensive. Send it at an appropriate time and she might even reply to you.

Use Emoticons

  • Those smiley faces can work to your favor when done correctly. Don’t send a smiley face after each sentence though, because they can be overdone too. Occasionally use one to reinforce your point or simply send an emoticon to convey your feelings at the moment.

Texting a Girl Tips

If you consider all of the rules there are to texting a girl and actually follow them, your success rate will be much higher than the guy who thinks he knows it all already.

Think Before Texting Too Much

  • Before you press send on that wordy text stop! Does it have a point? Will it make her smile? Is it short and to the point? Funny? If it is none of the above, then delete it and don’t send. Don’t appear desperate by texting too much without a point or sending a text too frequently.

Be Fun

  • Always consider the type of message you are sending. You don’t want to keep sending her the same thing over and over again, so be aware of what you have sent. Make it a picture one day, a joke the next and then a random thought to get her mind working the next. You like to be entertained so remember that when communicating with her too.

Avoid the Future

  • Don’t talk about the future through text messages. Save that for the times when you are together and face to face. A text can leave the door open for misunderstanding and that is never a good thing in a relationship.

Don’t Leave Room For Misunderstanding

  • Be clear and concise in every message you send over. The girl appreciates a clear message purpose too. Abbreviations are OK in some instances, but not every time. Don’t keep her wondering on what you said because you were too lazy to spell out the word. She will get frustrated and might not reply because she doesn’t want to appear dumb to you. Take the guesswork out and be clear in the message.

How to Text a Girl You Like

In the era of technology, it is important to know how to use it the right way. Just as man of ages past blew pick-up lines and getting the girl, you can blow it through a text message too. There are rules to follow when texting.

What are the best text messages to send a girl?

Rule 1:  Text Inconsistently

  • Not what you were expecting to hear? Do the same thing to the girl. A woman will chase after you when she can’t figure you out. If you are always texting her back then you become predictable and even a bit boring. But if you are sporadic and always keep her guessing, then you are entertaining because she is not sure what or when you will text her. It will keep her guessing and looking at her phone, thinking of you and wondering if you will send her another one.

Rule 2:  Have a Good Time

  • Always seem like you are having a great time, no matter what you are doing. Keep it upbeat, even if you might not exactly feel that way at the moment. You never want to tell her you are bored or tired or complain about something. That makes you dull and uninteresting. Stay positive and happy in any interaction you have between the two of you.

By being positive all of the time it will make her associate only fun times with you. And since everyone likes to go out with a fun person, you will be golden.

Rule 3:  Keep it Simple Stupid

  • Always be short and flirty in the messages you are sending out. Don’t try and send her a chapter on your background details – boring! Make your texts short and witty so she keeps wanting more. But don’t be predictable on when and how you send them either. Make them spaced apart and unpredictable in content and frequency.

Rule 4:  Texts Get You in Her Head

  • The more she thinks about you, the better you are in her mind. She will convince herself she likes you with funny messages that work in your favor. Texting jokes, pictures, short messages and flirts are a quick way to keep her focused on you. Random texts work well if they are funny or short and to the point.

When to Text a Girl You Like

You’ve come a long way in to your manhood and discovering ways to improve your life. But there are always things you could improve on. Use the example of the kitchen. Sure, you might have all of the basics down, but that gets boring day after day. How about learning how to make a gourmet meal so you can mix it up every so often? The same goes with words for a man. You can master the basics, but let’s try for some complicated interaction with the other gender.

Rules for Texting the Girl You Like

1. Text her immediately after you’ve met her.

Usually the opposite is said, Play cool and keep her waiting for a day or two. However, that can also backfire on you, especially if more than one guy got her phone number recently. There is a fine line between appearing desperate and eager when you send that text through though. You can be eager sounding and interesting while playing it cool sending her a text just a few minutes or hours after exchanging phone numbers.

2. Be clear with the humor.

Do you hate it when you can’t tell if someone is joking or not? Don’t put her in a position to wonder the same thing with you. Texting makes it even harder to tell sometimes because you don’t have the person’s facial expressions to read when they are speaking. So make sure your intent is clear with each and every text message you send out of your phone. Be clear and don’t be a weirdo in what you send to her.

3. Be flirty and interesting at all times.

There are a surprising number of men that send empty texts to a girl and then don’t understand why they never get anything in return. Stop and think about it for a moment. How many texts do you receive that don’t seem to say anything and you ignore them? Probably a lot. Now factor in everyone around the world doing it and you have a staggering amount of useless texts floating around. So don’t play that way and make your texts mean something. Make it have a point, build them up, flirt, tease them and communicate with quality interaction to try and seduce them.

4. Send a time and place to meet.

You managed to get her phone number, now it’s time to put the fingers to work and actually get another meeting in. Get comfortable in the interaction before you toss out a day and time to meet though or else she might think you are weird. Send a few funny texts and quality interactions before you set a date. It might be a reminder of an event you had already planned to go to together, but remember to do it and remind her so she shows up too.

Texting a Girl Once You Land Her Number

If you and some buddies are out on the town and meeting girls, it’s almost impossible to not have a good time. When you can socialize, have a drink, grab something to eat or even do something new, then it is all worth it. If you can flirt and land a few phone numbers, then the evening becomes all the more worthwhile. But what do you do with those numbers once you have traded them with the girls?

How can you take that number and make sure it turns in to another meeting with a girl or further conversation? Learn to text her the right way. When you text the right way you will increase your odds of meeting her again in the near future.

Texting a Girl So She Wants You

1. Keep the interaction even on both sides and don’t force the issue.

There are some people that believe any communication is good through your phone, even if it is going horrible. They prefer to look at the quantity rather than the quality of messages that are being exchanged. Because you could always improve the messages and interaction if you wanted, but it is important to keep the contact. But in the other reality, why should you waste your time conversing with someone who appears to be a flake or can’t return quality texts to you? Pay attention to your gut and if it tells you this isn’t a quality interaction, it might be time to cut it loose.

2.  Exchange numbers.

There is a difference between getting a phone number and exchanging phone numbers.  Don’t just take her phone number without giving yours in return. Then there could be confusion when you do text if she doesn’t recognize the number and then it goes downhill from there. Communicate before you text so she is aware of who it is the first words you send through to her. And make it seem natural when you exchange them and not a forced issue. If it is a forced issue, then the connection might not be easily made anyway.

3.  Don’t forget the callback humor.

When you initially text her, maybe bring in something you talked about earlier that was funny or interesting so she immediately knows who is texting her. Take the guessing game out and go right for working together on the bond you had begun to forge previously. You could mention the movie you debated, a picture from the night before or anything you had talked about that elicited a laugh. Keep it funny and worth mentioning so it is a positive reminder to her.

4.  Funny pictures.

Every time you make a girl smile it is a good thing. Figure out what makes her smile by testing with a funny picture or two. Find something funny where you are working or go through your file that you have built over the months. Search the Internet and get one if you have to. Send the picture and it will work as interaction between you two without you ever having to think of the right words to have to say. It can make her laugh, bring out an emotional response and work to farther the relationship without you having to do very much.

5.  Dumb jokes.

Even a short and dumb joke can work to break the ice between you and a girl you just met. Make sure it isn’t too racy and has a punch line that isn’t too hidden and send away. It might also be a way of measuring the girl’s sense of humor – as if she has one or not.

Some types will work better on some people than others. You won’t know that until you experiment and try them all out though, so get texting.


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