Question by Aadf: A girl I like doesn’t text first but will respond when I text as soon as possible?
She has only texted first a couple times but it was only to ask for help on homework and once because I asked her to tell me about the activity she was going going to do that day after it had happened. Usually I only text if I have a reason to or if I’m really bored and have something to talk about. She will usually send pretty long responses to my texts but only asks questions in some of them. I don’t really text her that much because I do have 2 classes with her and we talk in our group of friends then, but I’m wondering.
Does she really want to text me? I usually find myself leading the conversation.
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Answer by Junior
Whether she texts first or not does not really say much cuz some girls don’t like to text guys first. But if she lets the conversation die after a couple of texts, she probably does not want to text. Don’t try and carry it on if she let’s it die and you started the conversation.
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This is not unusual, shes waiting for you to prove your interest in her.
A lot of girls are scarred to text the guy first.
Girls always expect the guy to make the moves.
And they don’t want to be annoying.
Also they over think everything, so they wait for guys to text them first, in fear they are coming off annoying or clingy if they do it.
this always shows the girl you are thinking about her.
I wouldn’t worry. This is normal.
She finds it hard to start a conversation or most probably she is poor at that. She wants to text you evident by long responses. Just bare with her and text her. Or even ask her why she doesnt.