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Was this weird or good to text a girl after a first date?

Question by SCTrojan: Was this weird or good to text a girl after a first date?
I wasn’t totally sure how she felt after the first date but I really liked this girl who I took out last night. She has great values and is a strong Christian which I love. I sent her a text the day after/just right now that says:

“Hey, i had a great time last night and i think you are really special”

Was that a good thing to say or would you be weirded out?

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Answer by hidden honesty.
aww that text is well sweet 🙂 i’d be chuffed

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Q&A: Should I text this girl I like every day?

Question by Drew Stegman: Should I text this girl I like every day?
So me and this girl have been texting for about a week, and I usually have to text her first, but she is definitely interested, because she always responds to my texts very quickly and she always sends me 🙂 and <3. We have pretty interesting conversations, but im afraid that if I text her to often that she will think I'm desperate? Should I text her everyday or not? Best answer:

Answer by The H-Bomb
Welllllll talking to her in real life is indefinitely better. Don’t text her if you don’t really have anything to say.

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Q&A: Should I text this girl now and what should I say if I dooooo?

Question by : Should I text this girl now and what should I say if I dooooo?
So this girl texted me first on monday (because i guess she must of felt bad for being a ***** to me on sunday) and we talked the whole night and had a great time. I know its small but when I said goodnight I said “goodnight!” and she said “night jake :)”. In past times she usually has just done the exclamation mark.

I know I’m over thinking that part but who knows..Basically we talked in person tuesday and I didn’t text her that day. But Wednesday, yesterday after we talked in person, I texted her first finally. We were flirting….a ton! We were probably back and forth for a good three hours. And then I had to go to swim practice, so i said i would text her when i got out. So three hours later I texted her again. She replied in like six minutes. Then I sent a fairly long message and she never texted me back. She hasn’t messaged me since. Is she playing games? What should I do from here? Should I wait for her to text me again or should I try texting her again soon?

And if you think I should text her today (since its now been a day and a half since she didn’t text me back…what should i say? Just hey whats up?
like dinosaurs—i agree with u….but school is over now hahaha

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Answer by Dominic
It seems to me that you are the clingy type and she is a flirt. Best advice I can give you is leave this chick alone until she texts you. When/If she does, you will probably text her back in seconds right…lol… leave some time between texts because if you don’t… you look like a stalker/needy. If you don’t know by now, girls don’t like that grasshoppa.

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This girl is texting me too much?

Question by matt: This girl is texting me too much?
I met this girl on facebook and i kinda like her and dont mind texting her its just that she wants to talk all day. Like the past two days our text conversations have lasted pretty much from the time i wake up to the time i go to bed. I like this girl and im not trying to piss her off or make her think i dont like her but im not trying to get married or anything like that lol. Any ideas? I really hate telling people “g2g” and stuff i think its kind of rude

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Answer by Gogo
Well you gotta start saying I g2g now I gotta work or something.. Because she’s going keep driving you nuts.. Im a girl and if a guy wants to talk to me I usually end the conversation by not saying anything back to him.

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Texting Does this girl like me?

Question by A-wall: Texting Does this girl like me?
Ok I was texting one of my friends (a girl) and then she said “do you know my sister is really pretty and nice?” And then I texted back “?” And she said her sister stole her phone. Did her sister say that for any particular reason?

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Answer by bean10
Either her sister likes you or she just wanted attention.
It’s hard to tell though, unless it keeps happening then it must mean she likes you.
I hope this helps!

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Why do guys do this when texting a girl?

Question by Andrea Martinez: Why do guys do this when texting a girl?
I understand that us girls may do this too but when guys do this I really don’t know why . So just 2 days ago I was texting this guy & during our conversation like out of nowhere he said ” Lol well goodnight” . We were like in the middle of talking about this topic. Then later when I was on facebook I saw that he was online. That’s what pissed me off so much ! That was like 30 mins. after he said goodnight. Then like 30 more minutes later he was still online -.- . This is actually not the first time he does that. Now I’m starting to have so many negative thoughts that’s why I didnt text him yesterday because what if he does the same thing again? Im not sure if I should text him today or not cause usually we text like almost everyday . Should i wait and see if he texts me first? Should I even be worrying about this? Why would he lie to me about going to sleep if he was probably texting other people still ? Did he not want to text me?

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Answer by Rodion
LOL!! thats why we guys do this as well… Look at yourself, your thinking of this guy over and over again, you just cant get him off your mind. Think it the other way, if he had replyed constantly to the point when you just didn’t want to talk to him, you’d be like, i dont care for this dude. My advice for you is, RELAX, when ever you want to talk to this guy do so, and if you dont want, dont do so.. feel free for god sake. And plz for once in your life girls, try asking a guy out!

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How often should I text this girl I like?

Question by Highofflife: How often should I text this girl I like?
Me and this girl used to date. But we broke up cause we didnt know eachother too well. I talk to her in person. But when I text her, sometimes, she doesnt reply. Sometimes everyday I text her. We used to text a whole lot. She would even text me. So what Im asking is, how often should a guy text a girl? (w/o annoying her)

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Answer by Al
don’t come off desperate nor uninterested, text her maybe every 2/3 days? but make sure conversation isnt dead and you actually have something to say x

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Q&A: texting this girl, not sure how though?

Question by gamer: texting this girl, not sure how though?
so i text this girl I met every so often to try and be friends, sometime well have long conversions and other time it’ll be just 1 or 2 sentences. but more often then nt she only replies with one word text or doesn’t reply. So ill stop texting her for awhile and she’ll always eventually text hows it going stranger and start a conversion at that. so how would i try to have more streamlined (i guess is the word) text/conversations

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Answer by Elaine
It seems like she wants to talk to u but keeping up a convo has to be a mutual thing.

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Q&A: This girl im texting?

Question by Flight: This girl im texting?
We recently admitted we liked each other over text cause were going to different schools now. But then BAM she disappears? As in she totally stopped texting me, Shes not responding. Is this an act or something? Cause i wanted to tell her to hangout and talk about it or somthing.

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Answer by Tony
She simply lost interest

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Q&A: I was texting this girl and then… help?

Question by TheOneTwo: I was texting this girl and then… help?
Alright, so I was texting this girl with quick responses, being 1 to 5 minutes between each. Then I was joking/teasing about something (not directly at her in a mean way) and then she was like I can’t believe this.. blah blah blah really think I would make this up?” so that was the last thing. Then I replied and received no acknowledgement of course.
Also, I had set up a date for a few days in advance. What the crap am I supposed to do? I don’t want to come off as needy or whatever that crap is called when you text them again and again with no replies. I have to keep in touch to make sure the date is still being planned on My point is I can’t mess this up or she’ll bail on me lol

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Answer by Baking
she wants the D

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