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Fear of talking to girls? Need help desperate!?

Question by Alex: Fear of talking to girls? Need help desperate!?
so im 16 years old, Male Im in year 11 and I go to a school with around 1500 students,
All my life I have never had a friend girl, Girls call me cute but it those Sl*tty ones that just talks to EVERYONE no matter what…
I need tips to how to talk to a girl,
please dont respond saying something like “Be nice, start of slow” Yes I know all of that but…
HOW DO YOU start a conversation in the first place? I cant go up to a girl and introduce myself in front of her because thats kinda weird and creepy…. I dont get how guys from lower grades can somehow ‘magically’ get with girls from year 12!!!
I want to talk to some girls ranging from year 10- year 12s…
Unfortunately all of my classes are mostly guys because i do woodwork, Metals, sports etc, with barely any girls…

Anyway I thought of this when i was in the library while staring O.o (creep lol) at those hot year 12 girls…. How would I meet them without looking weird, Also I got a bit of ACNE on my face which destroys my courage also :/…
PEACE OUT BROTHERS AND SISTERS!

Best answer:

Answer by Chrissy
Smile, say hello and have self confidence. Girls can tell right off the bat at a first glance of a guy if would be worth it or not and that comes from noticing if he has self confidence or not. Being good looking is a plus too. So start working on those things because frankly, if you don’t start changing your ways, you are never going to get laid.

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GIRLS…Read! Need Tips for talking to girls?

Question by Jacky91210: GIRLS…Read! Need Tips for talking to girls?
Girls… Can you give me advice on how to talk to girls at my local swimming pool? I need tips on how to start a conversation with one. How to follow through… and get a number or something…..uh i got a good body but need advice and i lack confidence. An example of how to start a conversation is GREAT! serious answers please………
YES i am 14 years old, i just get nervous on approaching girls :[

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Answer by mz.dreamer
JUST BE YOU

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Why do so many girls like texting more than talking?

Question by CITIZEN of the WORLD: Why do so many girls like texting more than talking?
There have been quite a few girls that flirted with me regularly but I’m old school as in I like talking on the phone or hanging out with them you know the way PEOPLE ARE SUPPOSED TO but they prefer just texting or talking online.
Can anyone explain this habit? Are they afraid or something?

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Answer by Cara
It’s easier to say what you mean in writing than out loud. There is much less of a feeling of possible rejection, as well as interruption. I find it much easier to communicate in a written form, because I can compose all of my ideas much better that way than I do on the fly just talking.

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Fear of talking to girls i like?

Question by leafs234567: Fear of talking to girls i like?
So i have no problem talking to girls that i work with or girls/customers in the store i work in. And its not work related talking we talk abt other stuff. But i find i harder to talk to a girl that i like because i dont know what to talk about. Usually when i talk to other girls conversation comes naturally. ANY HELP??
Today i asked this girl out and my mouth was soooo dry and was really nervous but than 5 min later i was perfect talking to a girl i know when i was coming home.

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Answer by Billy
they shit and smell just like you, there no better than you and don’t be intimidated by them

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Q&A: need some advice on talking to girls…?

Question by alex: need some advice on talking to girls…?
well i grew up fat so my self-esteem broke along time ago, i am completely lost when it comes to talking to girls
the only time i really talk to girls is to help them with their relationship troubles
i get very red when i talk to them, fml big time

Best answer:

Answer by ♥Jenna♥
Girls don’t have a language,just talk normally
Ask them questions and then when they ask you a questions just breathe and answer normally
See? We’re not that complicated -_-

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Girls:Advice on Talking to Girls?

Question by Mr x 123: Girls:Advice on Talking to Girls?
I’m 19 years old and the last time I had a girlfriend was when I was 15

Before I turned 10 life was fun, I had a lot of good friends and everything was great, then my helper at school who was always kind to me died of Cancer and I got made fun oiut of because I cried in class. When I started Middle School all my so called friends said they didn’t like me anymore and they left me by myself, so i was by myself for Three years and when I was told I was going to be in a class with people I didn’t know at High School they all cheered.

School was a hard time for me and I never want to return to any of them, it knocked my confidence to 0 and everyone walked all over me, but I never got mad about it, once, I cried but never once got violent about it.

I never had trouble getting a girlfriend out of School and one or two girls said I was cute in School but my confidence got in the way of that. but I was inmature and stupid then, I did things without thinking them through and I hurt people with insults.

I was always told in School by teachers that I would get nowhere in life because I was quiet and people would say I was weird because I never spoke to anyone and told them how I felt. I felt so alone at times

I then found out I had Aspergers Sydrome and I couldn’t accept that i was different. I spent the next Three years getting over it accepting who I was. After a few years I decided to pursue a dream of mine and study Drama and I proved everyone at school wrong by earning a Distinction Star for my Final mark and earning 30 more points then anyone else on my course.

I’ve made allot of friends who like me for who I am and One even told me they’d miss me more then anyone else when they left college, that really touched me.

Now thats all over and done with, And i’m an Actor at college about to apply for University but I get really shy around girls now and I’m afraid I might never find my soulmate if I can’t talk to them.

What can I do to start a conversation with a Girl, Any advice will be appreciated.

I’ve been to the bottom of the mountain and I’m now climbing back up, I just hope I don’t lose my grip again

Best answer:

Answer by Mikeluvsanime
:'( i know how it feels, i never had one though, so i get nervous when im around girls, if you like someone, get to know them, ask bout them, see what they like, dont be like a puppy being to clingy and just try, either that or a chat site

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How to start talking to girls?

Question by : How to start talking to girls?
How do you start talking to girls that are compleate strangers without them thinking your a creep?

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Answer by READER 1
Find something you like about them and complement them about it..

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I need some help with my phone skills talking to girls?

Question by yes me: I need some help with my phone skills talking to girls?
I need some help with my phone skills talking to girls?
Hi I need help talking to a girl on the phone.I am 15 and I am kinda of shy but only when I talk to girls… maybe you could name some topics to talk about??? plz help me out

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Answer by Evie
Talk about your classes at school, what your plans are for the weekend, something interesting you heard on the radio or what happened this week on American Idol. The biggest thing though is to listen and give a bit of feedback. Teenage girls like to talk a lot. Listen,then talk when you have something to add to what they are saying. For the most part the girl will bring up subjects and steer the conversation.

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I need help talking to girls?

Question by : I need help talking to girls?
I need some help meeting girls. I go to an all boys school and im clueless when it comes to talking to girls i dont know. How should I approach them or what should i say? Im not the best in the looks department so any help would be great

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Answer by Tippytoe396
Oh, Jeez. We’re not that scary! Just come up and talk to us!

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Q&A: I suck at talking to girls :(?

Question by kellerdood: I suck at talking to girls :(?
HELP ME learn to talk to girls better, I have gotten a little better but i dont do very well with girls i dont know

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Answer by Nosmada
ok dude you got to develope some confidence. women love it . so what you need to do is practice, you have to talk to girls all the time. my suggestion is talk to the un popular girls, you know the girls who are in that same posistions as you. when you talk to them you will notice hopefully that you have more confidence than them, and this will build you up and give you confidence. but dont be a jerk about it, be nice and never put down a women.

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