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Q&A: can anyone help me with my social anxiety disorder and talking to girls?

Question by George: can anyone help me with my social anxiety disorder and talking to girls?
i cant talk to girls up close even if i know them i can only talk to them on Facebook or over text and as i have notice girls don’t really like boys who don’t talk to them first when they meet in person. when i get close to a girl i start to shake, sweat and my heart beats very fast also the word don’t come out and i don’t know what to do does anyone have any advice? does drinking alcohol help?

Best answer:

Answer by Tony
Try not to think that much about girls. It only comes naturally when you’re socializing. If you can;t do that, you’re better off being gay 😛

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I have trouble talking to girls and have very little social skills?

Question by jack: I have trouble talking to girls and have very little social skills?
So yea I’m almost 24 years old and I have trouble talking to girls and trying to make new friends. My social skills suck. I feel like I’m always gonna get rejected. For me to even talk to a girl at a party, bar, club I need to already have a few drinks in me! I’m more comfortable going out with my friends talking and drinking with them but when it comes to new people especially girls I just freeze and it sucks. So any advice from some girls? Guys welcome to answer.

Best answer:

Answer by dandymomma
Don’t meet girls at bars. Meet them at the grocery store, or someplace that isn’t quite as intimidating as the bar. Make your primary goal to be friendly, not to end up sleeping with someone, You could try on-line dating. You wouldn’t have to talk to anyone face to face until you were really ready to, or create a Facebook page or something and start networking with your friends. Some of the best hookups come from being introduced through a mutual friend.

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Q&A: Basic questions on starting social life?

Question by Peter: Basic questions on starting social life?
Several questions on initiating social life. May sound basic, but sometimes things seem harder than they are. Any help is very much appreciated (besides the 10 points), as I have been trying for years to improve this with fixes in only some areas.

So:
How should a guy start a text conversation for the first time with a girl whose number he already has for school things?
In what ways can I go from being friends in high school (in other words, talking with someone in a class a lot) to becoming friends outside of school such as hanging out?

Best answer:

Answer by Tranny
-Hello
-How are you today?
-What’s up?

But definitely start with hello. Try to find common ground with the girl. See what she like. Then when you two really get to know each other. Invite her to hang out with you like at the mall or the movies. Or if she likes sport then play basketball or something.

It’ll take time, but with patience things will work out. Good luck.

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How do I overcome my fear of social rejection and talk to girls?

Question by Anonymous: How do I overcome my fear of social rejection and talk to girls?
I’m extremely nervous when It comes to talking to girls. I want a girl friend. Is it too much to ask for?

I should stop beating around the bush, I have trouble talking to girls. I’ve tried reading books by Neil Strauss but these seem to be little to no help.

Can anyone please help me?

Sincerely,

Desperate and Lonely

Best answer:

Answer by trinky32
Well just have confidence in yourself. Tell the world you are who you are and you don’t care what anyone else thinks. You need o be happy with yourself. It took me a long time to finally have confidence and be happy with myself but let me tell you it works wonders.

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