Question by starrseeed: How do you get your boyfriend/girlfriend to stop snooping through your phone?
I do have to give some background…
Before anyone says, “You should have nothing to hide”… my boyfriend habitually checks and reads my conversations of text messages, (from my girl friends, too!) when I am sleeping or when he needs to “borrow” my phone. And then later on brings up random things he’s read about like days or weeks later if we get in an argument, (so I become aware after the fact that he has been snooping). Example, recently two of my classmates (one of them a girl, and the other gay) and I casually suggesting to hang out some day in the future. He maliciously asks me who the “f***” these people are.. And God forbid if anyone of my old friends texts to say hello. (I’ve had the same number for years).
I am in my early twenties, college student, and I have NEVER been in a relationship where you are expected to tell EVERYONE to f*** off and have no friends. When I met the guy I never imagined I would begin to feel so isolated like this? Anyone with similar situations?
Thanks for reading!
Answer by Abigail Needham
Password!!! Or just put it in a place he never touches youXD
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