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Q&A: Who sends the first text? Guy or girl?

Question by Amber: Who sends the first text? Guy or girl?
So me and my bf are always arguing about this…. So who’s supposed to text the other first? The guy or the girl?

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Answer by Kyle
In todays day and age, you both are right, it doesn’t matter who sends the text first. If two people care about each other, then either one can show the other they care about texting first. And I know I don’t speak for all guys, but personally I love it when a girl takes some initiative, because it drives me nuts when girls are all about equal rights, and everything is equal (which I 100% agree with) but then go and expect the guy to make all the decisions.

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GIRLS: Do you mind if the guy sends the last text?

Question by Omifizzle: GIRLS: Do you mind if the guy sends the last text?
Whenever im having conversations, especially for a long time, over texts, i dont know if girls rather send the last text message or they dont care. I feel kind of rude when i just stop texting them, but it gives me that sense of control that all guys want (you know what i mean guys) Does this thought even cross your mind girls?
I just don’t want to seem too annoying or desperate.. Because when i just don’t shut up, im sure anybody would be annoyed.

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Answer by Danielle
Have thought about this. I think it’s better when the guy sends the last text. Then the girl won’t be so confused on why the guy just stopped answering. That’s how I think of it anyways. I hate when I’m texting a guy and he doesn’t answer. But I only mean in conversations. If there isn’t anything to say back, then don’t worry too much about it.

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Do girls like when someone sends them a long message on facebook sa ying they like the?

Question by John: Do girls like when someone sends them a long message on facebook sa ying they like the?
so when i text this girl my phone wont send the message idk why. So i wanna just sed her a long message on facebook saying i like her. What do you think she will think about this. we are oth 14.

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Answer by Julia Julia
It depends on the girl, but most girls would find a long message really sweet. It’d be better if you could tell her in person, but if you’re too nervous I think a Facebook message is all right. Do what you think the girl will like. Is she the type of girl who would want to be told she’s pretty or is she the type that would prefer you telling her how you like her personality and why? Consider how serious she’d take it. If she dates around a lot you probably want to make it a bit shorter because you’ll just be perceived as another potential short-term boyfriend. If she’s more picky about who she dates she’ll probably take the message more seriously so you’ll want it to be longer. If wherever you are a Facebook message might be considered tacky (and a text message wouldn’t) then you should explain in the message how your phone wouldn’t send it.

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What does it mean when a girl sends a winky face after every message?

Question by ANON: What does it mean when a girl sends a winky face after every message?
I text this girl occasionally and after every message no matter what the topic is a winky face. I don’t really think that she likes me though because I’m fat (lol). I feel like we r just friends but I wanna know what all the winky faces r about.

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Answer by Arielle Signore
Maybe there’s something in her eye (;

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