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Q&A: How to differentiate friend zone from relationship zone in college?

Question by Alex: How to differentiate friend zone from relationship zone in college?
I’m having trouble with this because my crush asks me if I want to go watch a movie with her, but I think she is just being very friendly. She is funny and friendly with everyone we know. Over the past 2 Months she has started 11 text conversations with me and I have started 5 with her. They are usually academically oriented but we do exchange jokes. Nothing flirtacious really. She almost never sends me a smiley face but she always smiles when i joke in person. Recently I was with her and a few others in a meeting and a friend of ours asked if anyone wanted to get some food with her, I offered to go but my friend said no and then told my crush to come and said that they were going to talk about girl stuff…that usually means the same thing in my past experiences…. Which usually is about the relationship between me and the person I think is crushing on me. Then later that day our friend pulled most of my friends aside and left. When they came back the room felt awkward as if they knew something i didnt. All of her body language and texts suggest that she doesn’t like me but almost everything else like his she asks me if i want to hang out does because she likes to hang out with me one on one. How can I be sure if she is just friendly or if she actually likes me.

Best answer:

Answer by Sayria
Just ask her…college is a good place to switch from the highschool type of behaviour where you just sit around for weeks wondering if she likes you or not…shes not going to be your only crush foreverso ask her an move on!

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Q&A: Why is texting so important to a developing relationship with a girl?

Question by Roxas: Why is texting so important to a developing relationship with a girl?
It’s a pain in the ass, but I have to do it in order to try to develop a relationship with a girl. Why do I have to do this? I’d rather call because I do better in a conversation when talking, but now thats socially un acceptable in high school. Btw how often do you text a girl? What would I talk about? Is it a good idea to text them if we ha a good day together but her team lost states?

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Answer by Danny
its not imortant at all, people have made realatioships just fine for thousands of years before tecxting

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How do I bring up relationship talk with a girl I like?

Question by ftw_anthem: How do I bring up relationship talk with a girl I like?
I’m texting a girl right now and I need a good way to bring up the topic: relationships. I don’t want to talk about other people’s, but I want her to talk about what she wants, without coming off that I am only asking to find out. Thanks!

Best answer:

Answer by archer713
date her first and take her out a few times before heading into that.

ask her out and give her a reason why you feel she’s right for you… “I’d love to get dinner sometime at that Indian place you mentioned, I’ve never tried it before.” something that shows you remember what she’s said and you’re interested in learning more from her.

good luck!

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