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Q&A: How do I quit putting off talking to girls?

Question by R.I.P. Kurt: How do I quit putting off talking to girls?
I’m a shy guy in college and I have a a habit of procrastinating talking to girls. For example: I see a girl that I like and want to talk to her, but in my mind I think, “maybe later.” Can I get some FRIENDLY help?

Best answer:

Answer by Keanu
Well all I can say is that you just suck it up and walk over to talk to a chick you like dude. It may be difficult but in the end it’ll pay off. And plus you’ll feel a lot better for it. So just next time you see a chick you like just walk up to her and start a friendly conversation. That’s all I can say really.

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Is this girl just putting off rejecting me or does she really not know?

Question by Justin: Is this girl just putting off rejecting me or does she really not know?
Well we have had long text conversations for the last 3 months but we havent hung out. I keep asking her but she always has an excuse but she gets mad at me when I accuse her of not wanting to see me. We discussed a relationship and she said she’ll think about it and she doesn’t know yet. I bring it up a lot so I would expect if she had absolutely no intention then she would tell me.

Best answer:

Answer by Misa S
She’s dodging things and getting defensive. I’d move on. This happened to me with another guy and I did the exact same thing. I liked the attention so I stuck with it, but I had no intention of going out with him. :\

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