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Q&A: What is my problem? cant talk to girls?

Question by johnjohntod: What is my problem? cant talk to girls?
im 17 and i have a huge problem with talking to girls. i just cant gain the courage to do it. i think that i can do it until i see a girl im attracted to and just cant do it. i want to be able to do this. please help me.
i can already talk to unattractive girls

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Answer by stocktrader1929
This might sounds evil, but start with the less desired girls and start talking to them. You might find out there’s more to girls than just a face.

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what is my problem? cant talk to girls?

Question by johnjohntod: what is my problem? cant talk to girls?
im 17 and i have a huge problem with talking to girls. i just cant gain the courage to do it. i think that i can do it until i see a girl im attracted to and just cant do it. i want to be able to do this. please help me.

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Answer by Pudding Queen
Ya. I have the same problem. Only I can’t talk to guys 🙂 Sometimes, i try to figure out what there into and bring it up sometime during class or something. If you don’t really know anything about them, allot of people have a myspace so you can look her up on there. And just so you know, that is DEFINITELY not internet stalking. it’s totally normal. ok. maybe a little weird, but hey, you gotta do what you gotta do right?!

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What Do I do If I have a problem talking to girls im attracted to?

Question by Gurt40: What Do I do If I have a problem talking to girls im attracted to?
For some reason when I talk to girls im attracted to (only attracted to) my mind kind of shuts down or I get really nervous. I have no idea why this happens Im a confident person around other people. If my brain doesnt shut down and I dont get nervous I dont even know what to talk about. Please help im in high school and I want to have a girlfriend before I graduate (Im only a freshman still a long ways to go)

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Answer by ck
Welcome to the club………. LOL

Seriously, it is a combination of confidence and having a plan on what to say. If you like someone you are probably going to be more nervous around her and if you have enough confidence in yourself and what you are all about it will help. If you have a plan on what you are going to say, and how/when you will say it things will be easier.

Some guys are naturally players, some guys are not. No shame in being one of the non-players so long as you do not let it ruin your life. Being shy and reserved, combined with nervous around certain girls, is a turn on to some girls.

Relax, think about your good points and what/how you are going to say to her. And don’t think you are the only one who feels this way at the freshman level………a lot of boys get that way.

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Q&A: period talk girls help me if you have this problem?

Question by missmel: period talk girls help me if you have this problem?
I was just wondering does anyone else have this problem. Im 20 I don’t take periods i haven’t in about 8 or 9 months i know im not pregnant lol.I was on the pill and i still didn’t take a period its really annoying considering im trying to have a baby with my fiance does anyone else have this problem?

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Answer by KharizmaDiva
I was told by my Dr that sometimes while on birth control or just getting off birth control your menstrual cycle may get thrown off or even stop for a while. I was on the shot and mine totally stopped for about a year but seems as soon as I stopped I became pregnant. I had to start the birth control because of the irregularity. Tell your dr about your plan to conceive and he’ll know what to do. You want to get this taken care of first so you won’t have complications during the pregnancy.

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