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Q&A: How to start conversations over text?

Question by Andrew: How to start conversations over text?
So I’m interested in a girl (we’re both freshmen in HS) and I have her # and stuff but I’m just not sure of how to start a conversation with her. We only have 1 class together (it’s almost summer so that doesn’t matter anyway) but its just hard to think of a way to start a conversation over text. I’d appreciate any help.

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Answer by Kaylee
Uh… You say hi then what’s up? Then it just goes from there. Normally she’ll tell you what she’s doing then asked you what you’re doing. Just be sure to say something a little more exciting than “nothin'”. She won’t want to respond to that. Something like “Watching this new show “blahjsjsj”, it’s hilarious, have you seen it?” or if you’re gutsy, “just thinking about this really pretty girl” will spark a conversation.

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Q&A: Can the cops trace someones phone number if it was given to them over a phone call?

Question by Billy thomas: Can the cops trace someones phone number if it was given to them over a phone call?
I’ve been texting this girl and we’ve been sexting but it turns out she lied about her age. Her sister saw a picture and if she were to call the cops and give them my phone number would they go through all the trouble of contacting the phone company and getting all of my information? Could they do anything if my number is under and adults name?

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Answer by k w
why would you send pictures to someone
you never met and don’t really know?!

do you play russian roulette at home as well?!

how about contacting her sister in person
and pleading with her to erase the pictures,
because you were misled as to her age?!

that’s the simplest and most direct approach!

best wishes

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How can I intiate flirting over text with this girl?

Question by That Thing: How can I intiate flirting over text with this girl?
There’s this girl who I think is interested in me who I’ve been texting for a while. I want to get the conversations to a more flirtatious subject but I don’t know how to start. How can initiate flirting smoothly and effectively with this girl over text. Thanks for your opinions.

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Answer by blah
first jokes. laughter is an open door to everything!

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Q&A: How do I start a conversation over text/facebook with someone I haven’t talked to in a long time?

Question by James: How do I start a conversation over text/facebook with someone I haven’t talked to in a long time?
I haven’t talked to this one girl in like two or three months, she lives in another state. But we were pretty good friends and I feel like saying hi. How do I do that so it doesn’t seem like im just randomly talking to her?

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Answer by random person
Hey, long time no talk. I’ve missed you. Or how have you been the last to months.

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Q&A: How to start a friendly conversation with a girl over texts?

Question by Possum: How to start a friendly conversation with a girl over texts?
I recently became friends with a girl I met at camp (we were both counselors). We are similar age (I am a few months older) except all of our conversations have gone like this:
Me: Hey, Hows it going?
Her: Pretty good, you
Me: Good
Her: I’m glad
-Conversation Ends-

I was just wondering how I can extend the conversation without it seeming that I am just texting to keep the conversation from ending.

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Answer by Caleb
Ask how was her day. Does she have plans this week. What are you doing. Simple stuff… Lol.
Goodluck(:

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How can I get over my inability to talk to girls in person?

Question by : How can I get over my inability to talk to girls in person?
I can talk to girls I find attractive over text but in person I get nervous and can’t think of anything to say

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Answer by Luke
Alcohol helps.
A LOT.

Or you could think of what you’re going to say BEFORE you initiate a conversation, and with practice you’ll get used to it.

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Q&A: Is impersonating somebody over text illegal in California?

Question by Nimet: Is impersonating somebody over text illegal in California?
I got a Pinger, which gave me a new number. I decided to text this girl i sorta know pretending to be one of her friends. She found out, and told the school counsler, and threatened to tell the police. I never called her anything mean, threatened, or harassed her. It was a normal conversation that lasted an hour. Were both minors and in the 8th grade. And I have no history on my record of getting in trouble. Can I get arrested?

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Answer by Becca
No lol if you kept it up and made a bad reputation for the girl you were pretending to be. Then maybe, but if you didn’t then who cares.

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Q&A: How can you get over your fear of talking to a girl you like I have had it for a long time and I am too scared?

Question by Sgt. Pepper the Cubs fan: How can you get over your fear of talking to a girl you like I have had it for a long time and I am too scared?
I am too scared to talk to girls I have been like this for years, I don’t know what I can do, but I am tired of not taking action but I am too scared to take action.

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Answer by Stamina
Get out of your comfort zone. in other words… practice. You are not comfortable. the only way to get comfortable doing something you are not comfortable is to practice. Force yourself into the situation and you will get better at it.

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How to get over my fear of talking to beautiful girls?

Question by Chuck: How to get over my fear of talking to beautiful girls?
I do not have the confidence to talk to girls that are beautiful. I am good looking and I can come up with what to say in my head but then when it comes time to say something to them, I wimp out or find an excuse not to.

HELP ME?

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Answer by TheAwesome
Just do it. Take 10 courageous seconds out of your life and do it

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Q&A: How do i get over the panic of talking to girls?

Question by YBollis: How do i get over the panic of talking to girls?
Ive been working alot on talking to girls but I cant seem to get over this hump. I know what to sa, im pretty calm before I go up but when Im faced with actually talking to women i get extremely nervous and I panic. What can I do to either quell this or remove it?

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Answer by Only
All I can say is: Practice Practice 🙂

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