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Q&A: How can I talk to girls more?

Question by : How can I talk to girls more?
Hey guys,

In school i’m normally in a group with ”popular” boys and girls in my year. The boys are pretty easy to talk to because we just muck about but when the girls come i kinda get speechless. I don’t know what to say to them because i’m afraid i might embarrass myself. I try to urge myself to say jokes but again, im afraid i might embarrass myself an no one laughs.
There are some girls that i talk to occasionally and some that i’m pretty good friends with and i talk in school, but after school when i go on facebook or something i dont really know what to say to the girls. I really want to talk more with girls because most of them look kinda nice and the boys are boring sometimes 😛

Can someone help me interact more with girls and make good jokes to them? Thanks guys it would help me a lot!

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Answer by Curly-Girl<3
Well, my friend always told be that when your trying to talk to the opposite sex or someone you really like, try to pretend like you already know them! Chances are their nervous to talk to you too, but probaably just push it aside and dont show it as much. Man up 🙂 Get the confidence from down deep, i know its there! And use it
Sorry if this doesnt help much :/ but just be comfortable with yourself and you can be comfortabel with everyone else 🙂

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How can I talk to more girls?

Question by : How can I talk to more girls?
hi,….i’m 15 and im in the youth group at my church and we activities (like swimming) and when we have girls come…I’m always scared to talk to them…lol.

i’ve never been very good at talking to girls…i’m kinda shy but I want them to feel welcome when they come to our church.

how can I talk to girls? what should I say after “hi”? should I offer my hand? what are some things to talk about? is it okay to say a compliment like “you look nice today?”

any other advice?

thanks!

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Answer by ellyn3939
well…
If they’re in their swimsuit, i don’t think you should say “you look nice today” lol

but just smile at them and ask how they are and such…

Maybe a topic will spring up and you have a conversation!

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Why do so many girls like texting more than talking?

Question by CITIZEN of the WORLD: Why do so many girls like texting more than talking?
There have been quite a few girls that flirted with me regularly but I’m old school as in I like talking on the phone or hanging out with them you know the way PEOPLE ARE SUPPOSED TO but they prefer just texting or talking online.
Can anyone explain this habit? Are they afraid or something?

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Answer by Cara
It’s easier to say what you mean in writing than out loud. There is much less of a feeling of possible rejection, as well as interruption. I find it much easier to communicate in a written form, because I can compose all of my ideas much better that way than I do on the fly just talking.

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How to talk more around girls?

Question by Hola: How to talk more around girls?
I need to know how to talk more around girls. I hang out with girls and guys probably equally but whenever I hang around girls it seems like I never talk. For example, today me and 2 girls went to the movies and before the movie I didn’t really talk much. After the movie, I talked but not as much as they did. So I need to know, how to talk around girls and what to talk about when I hang out with them??
Thanks

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Answer by Traveler
Don’t go into the conversation with the idea that you’re trying to impress them. That could be part of the problem. Just talk about things that interest you as if you’re talking to guys.

Once you have that mastered, you’re home.

Don’t worry that you won’t talk as much as they do, because no boy or man will ever talk as much as the girls or women do anyway.

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Q&A: How can i get the courage to talk to more girls?

Question by : How can i get the courage to talk to more girls?
Like I can talk to girls but its tough to hold conversations.

I’m a junior in high-school.
When its on text, facebook or one on one its okay but give groups of girls are intimidating for me

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Answer by yay
just be cool. im a girl, and talking to guys is pretty normal. if you seem nervous or anything we would understand, it’s not easy talking to a group of football players for a girl.

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Do guys get scared to text or call a girl more than once?

Question by L: Do guys get scared to text or call a girl more than once?
If a guy texts a girl but she doesn’t respond, would he feel hesitant to text or call again for fear of coming off thirsty?

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Answer by R B
Yes.

It takes 2 to tango.

If she doesn’t respond that will usually be interpreted as a lack of interest on her part, then reluctantly be accepted as rejection.

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How can I talk to girls more enthusiastically?

Question by Bobby: How can I talk to girls more enthusiastically?
It seems like wen I with a group of people I can talk to girls fine cuz there’s people to carry the conversation. When I’m one on one with a girl (say like in class) I feel like I’m shyer and still talk but its more mellow toned. Also do girls mind this or would they like a guy enthusiastic all the time

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Answer by Carl
Grow a pair dude.

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How to try to get the girl to talk about herself more?

Question by Joe: How to try to get the girl to talk about herself more?
Cause im texting this girl I met and I kinda like and she keeps asking questions about me and so far I barely got to ask her any cause so far I barely know some things about her so how can I flip this conversation around where I can ask her the questions with out being rude or awkward?

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Answer by Mac Van
20 questions, sir. 20 questions.

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Q&A: Is it more intimate to text a girl at night than day?

Question by YES MAN: Is it more intimate to text a girl at night than day?
Should I text a girl i like at night than during the day?

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Answer by beccaMF.
why are you putting intimate and text in the same sentence? ;p lol

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How can I talk to girls more and not be so shy?

Question by Dagon Midoa: How can I talk to girls more and not be so shy?
i need some tips as to getting over shyness when talking to girls.

When i think about talking to a certain girl i just dont do it because i dont know what to say.

i think it is because i have had bad experiences with going after girls:
if i go after a girl I like, it falls apart because of my shyness — if a girl comes to me i really don’t like them.

So what can i do about talking to a girl in particular and not being shy about it?

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Answer by Richard R
Bro, its not an overnight thing. It takes time and practice.
I had this problem once but the best thing to do is talk to her like you would do any girl. Be creative, funny, and play with her emotions!
The more practice you get the more you’ll get over the shyness, Trust me.

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