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Q&A: are the guys shy to text to girl who he really likes?

Question by cookiemonstaa: are the guys shy to text to girl who he really likes?
Because i was talking to this guy, he told me that he likes me and it was really obvious. we were texting and everything was fine. but we didnt text for 3 days. im just wondering cause people tell me that guys like it when girls text him first. so what do you think?
and i told him that i like him too but im scared to be in a relationship bc i dont wanna be heartbroken over and over again. thats what i told him and he understands.

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Answer by Summerdrink
I prefer to text. Its harder to speak to a girl for so many reason.

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Q&A: How often should I text a girl if I know she likes me?

Question by Shaun: How often should I text a girl if I know she likes me?
Ok I’ve been working out at the gym with this girl who I met recently and the sexual attraction is almost through the roof. Whenever I’m around her like my whole body gets warm and weird and in know she feels the same way about me too.

We just had a long texting conversation with lots of flirting and emoticons and hahahas/lols.. I told her that she was fun to work out with and she’s like “u r too!”

Should I start the conversation again this morning or should I let her text me first or should I even not have a conversation with her today?

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Answer by Dayzed
Hi 🙂

I’ve been in this situation before. You don’t want to appear too keen with this girl, otherwise you look like a pushover – trust me, girls don’t like keen guys. Leave it for today, and text her tomorrow. If she texts you at some point today, then you will definitely know that she likes you and enjoys talking to you.

Good luck, and congratulations! I really, really hope everything works out for you. 🙂

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How to know if she likes me via text (female answers please)?

Question by John: How to know if she likes me via text (female answers please)?
I’ve been texting this girl for a few days. At times she seems really interested in me and wants to keep the conversation going. Other times her replies are far shorter and its hard to read her intentions. So what are good signs I can see if she likes me? What are some conversations/questions I can bring up to indirectly see if she likes me? (I’m 16 she’s 15 by the way)

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Answer by J Calneil
It may be that she’s bored when she texts you a lot, and when you catch her at a bad time she might text shorter.. but the point is, she IS texting you – if i’m uninterested, i usually wont reply at all or just really short answers. But, i think the best way to know how she is feeling is to talk to her on the phone! be bold and call her – texting is not the best way to read intentions.

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Ok so ive been texting this girl and idk if she likes me?

Question by : Ok so ive been texting this girl and idk if she likes me?
Ok So ive been texting this girl ive met on facebook, and we have alot in common. and we’ve been texting for a few days mostly thoughout the whole day, she wants to hang out, etc. but seems to be interested when making comments on needing a bf and etc. what do you think? what should i do?

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Answer by ERICK
if you think you two are getting close. definatly go out with her and see how things go

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How do I find out if this girl likes me without asking her?

Question by Dorian: How do I find out if this girl likes me without asking her?
I really like this girl. I am doubtful that she likes me back, though. Whenever we text, I feel like I am the one who usually starts the conversation. Whenever she invites me over, she seems like she doesn’t want me there. We’ve only cuddled like 4 times, and once we slept together (literally, not sexually. She fell asleep in my arms). Are there any ways I can test whether she likes me or not?

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Answer by Haley
Listen, I can even tell you now, SHE LIKES YOU!!! 🙂 If she was comfortable falling asleep with you holding her, I can guarantee she likes you. But if you reallly want proof, facebook stalk her and ask her friends. If she has any other guy friends, ask them. They would be the best to ask. Talk to her more, maybe she’ll drop some major hints. Try and hug her romantically and see how she reacts. If all goes well, just try and kiss her. Girls like it when guys are the one starting the conversations. Believe me!! My boyfriend almost never starts the convo… he ignores me.

If you feel like answering mine, I would be most appreciated. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AjpRfjV7T4_zNFQkvimyIiLsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20120924143033AAhZcKR don’t feel obligated.

Good luck!!

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How can I tell if she likes me?

Question by That-Kid: How can I tell if she likes me?
I have been texting this girl for about an hour at night for the past 2 days and I think she may like me. She always ‘lol’s at what I say and things like that. How can I show her that I like her, but not be too straight-forward. Maybe work in some random compliments next time?

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Answer by MATT
1.Assume that she likes you. By doing this, you portray confidence (make sure it’s cocky and funny). In this case, the truth will come out sooner or later

2.Let her know that you like her in her language and to the degree with which she is both comfortable and ready to understand. Be prepared to accept that she may not be ready to believe you or your feelings yet (or hers for that matter)

3.Don’t look “too easy,” as this usually presents a weak image. The more that is earned the more respect that is given and strength that is acknowledged. The second she thinks she’s got you wrapped around her finger, you’re done

4.Engage her in relationship-based topics and activities. Make positive personal connections. Accomplish things together

5.Share your values in word or in action. Find out what her values are. Recognize common values without being too obvious.

6.Ask yourself what you might do if you knew she liked you. Might you kiss her? Might you be more physically touchy? If you want her to admit she likes you, chances are you know she does…so act like you know it!

7.Let her speak with her eyes or her actions (or in other ways). Some people are not good with words and you may find that the message that you are looking is already being broadcast clearly in an unexpected form.

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Q&A: How do I find out if this girl likes me without asking her?

Question by Dorian: How do I find out if this girl likes me without asking her?
I really like this girl. I am doubtful that she likes me back, though. Whenever we text, I feel like I am the one who usually starts the conversation. Whenever she invites me over, she seems like she doesn’t want me there. We’ve only cuddled like 4 times, and once we slept together (literally, not sexually. She fell asleep in my arms). Are there any ways I can test whether she likes me or not?

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Answer by Answers GURU
tell her there is this girl that you know and she came to you today and told you ..she likes you and kissed you at the cheek and left…make her jealous and tell her you don’t know why that other girl finds you so attractive.
jealousy works every time.

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Girls how can I tell if a girl likes me?

Question by Ryan: Girls how can I tell if a girl likes me?
I’m 15 and was wondering what kinds of things you do when you like a guy? Also is it normal that I almost always start text conversations with this one girl I like, who might like me?

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Answer by Amanda
Well usually I talk to that person as much as possible to get to know them better. Also sometimes I stare but not always. Mostly trying to get their attention I guess and be extract nice
Good luck 🙂

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How do i know if a girl likes me or not and what are the best ways to start a conversation with a girl?

Question by Rick: How do i know if a girl likes me or not and what are the best ways to start a conversation with a girl?
So i like this girl and i got her phone number and stuff, but idk what to say to her, and how do i get her to like me.

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Answer by Aaron
You got her number, that’s the easy part. Now alls you gotta do is talk, make her laugh, act like your very wise without being a douche, In all it really doesn’t matter too much what your talking about as long as your talking. Eventually it should work its self out for you

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How do I tell if he still likes to text me?

Question by HoTcHoCoLaTe: How do I tell if he still likes to text me?
Both guys and girls opinions! What are some signs that a guy is bored with and doesn’t like texting a girl? What are some signs that a guy really likes texting a girl? Also tips on what guys like to talk about, how to not come off as annoying, and how to get a guy to really like talking to you would be much appreciated!

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Answer by BIGDADDYCOOL
If the texting is immediate responses, they still enjoy it and are excited to hear from you

If the texts take a long time to respond, things are getting stale.

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