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Q&A: Texting a girl you don’t even know?

Question by Dr. R. Jackson: Texting a girl you don’t even know?
This girl I go to school with gave me her number over Facebook. It was one of those situations where she post a status saying, “Like my status and I’ll give you my number”. I guess she post it just to see who would actually want her number – I don’t know, I ended up liking her status and getting a message with her number stored inside. I mean, I’ve seen this girl around school, but she’s a grade lower than me, we’ve made eye contact for quite some time, but for the most part I’ve never said a word to the girl. I honestly don’t even know why I’m friends with her on Facebook. But anyway, should I text this little chick? I mean, I don’t even know what to text b/c, once again, I’ve never said a word to this girl.

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Answer by Knives N Pens
say…”hi”

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Q&A: How often should I text a girl if I know she likes me?

Question by Shaun: How often should I text a girl if I know she likes me?
Ok I’ve been working out at the gym with this girl who I met recently and the sexual attraction is almost through the roof. Whenever I’m around her like my whole body gets warm and weird and in know she feels the same way about me too.

We just had a long texting conversation with lots of flirting and emoticons and hahahas/lols.. I told her that she was fun to work out with and she’s like “u r too!”

Should I start the conversation again this morning or should I let her text me first or should I even not have a conversation with her today?

Best answer:

Answer by Dayzed
Hi 🙂

I’ve been in this situation before. You don’t want to appear too keen with this girl, otherwise you look like a pushover – trust me, girls don’t like keen guys. Leave it for today, and text her tomorrow. If she texts you at some point today, then you will definitely know that she likes you and enjoys talking to you.

Good luck, and congratulations! I really, really hope everything works out for you. 🙂

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Q&A: *Girls*, When do I know when to stop texting her?

Question by ImJusASophomore: *Girls*, When do I know when to stop texting her?
I really like this girl, and just a few days ago, I got up the courage to finally text her. She responded to me really quickly saying “Hi Brian!” and acting all cheerful like that. So then we continued to have a good conversation that ended with a “goodnight brian” in her text. The next day, she initiated the first text saying “hi buddy!”. We again had a good, random conversation ending with “good bye Brian! ttyl!”.

I thought this all went very smoothly so then the next day, I texted her and we had a good conversation for bout 10 min. but then she said she had to go. She ended the conversation with “I’ve got to get to bed, ttyl, goodnight! bye”

I just want to know what this means and also if she likes me. Should I ask her out? How do I ask Her out? and When do I ask her out?

Another thing, should I be patient with my texts, like should I wait a few days and see if she initiates the first text again? Also, we are both going to be freshman in high school and we are also good friends right now. Just giving you a little more info!

Well, thank you and sorry this was so long! Girls are confusing sometimes! Ugggg! lol.

Please no negative or sarcastic responses.

Thank You

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Answer by Anonymous
i would get to know her better!
personally i wouldnt ask out a girl just because we have had a couple good TEXTING conversations.
just get to know her better in person, and flirt around if you like her (if you havent already).
then id ask her out…

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How to know if she likes me via text (female answers please)?

Question by John: How to know if she likes me via text (female answers please)?
I’ve been texting this girl for a few days. At times she seems really interested in me and wants to keep the conversation going. Other times her replies are far shorter and its hard to read her intentions. So what are good signs I can see if she likes me? What are some conversations/questions I can bring up to indirectly see if she likes me? (I’m 16 she’s 15 by the way)

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Answer by J Calneil
It may be that she’s bored when she texts you a lot, and when you catch her at a bad time she might text shorter.. but the point is, she IS texting you – if i’m uninterested, i usually wont reply at all or just really short answers. But, i think the best way to know how she is feeling is to talk to her on the phone! be bold and call her – texting is not the best way to read intentions.

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how do I know if I should talk to a girl In my class?

Question by Matthew Swanson: how do I know if I should talk to a girl In my class?
So Im a sophmore in high school and there is a girl I like in awho is in a few of my classes. So far I have had barely any eye contact(when we do she doesnt smile I dont think) and she is kinda shy. Her friends are really outgoing and I dont think they like me. So far I have also been to scared to talk to her because I have no idea when to talk, what to say, etc.. I just want to know if any of you guys have advice for me on how I should go about doing this. I also am not the best at talking to girls who I dont know.

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Answer by Marvellous U
Personally I think you should get over her. She does not smile at you when you make eye contact and is not that out going. That already is not the kind of girl you want to be with, buuut anyways if you really want to get to know her, just start off with simple things like a smile. Whenever you do have eye contact, just flash her a quick smile or smirk, just to let her know that you are approachable and friendly. Since you said you are shy and not good at talking to girls, then you should take it slow. Start with smiles. If you happen to walk in class at the same time she does, just say hey. For you since you are shy, just keep the talks short and sweet. And as time progresses you will build up your confidence. And from there, it will go from “hey” to “hey, how is it going?” Also man, you said you have her in some classes, do the obvious and ask her about a class assignment…even if you know the answer to it. Trust me take my advice I am a 19 year old girl and I see and notice what guys do to get my attention or some other girl’s attention. You just have to put yourself out there. Well good luck!

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How to talk to girls you dont know?

Question by Jacain Knight: How to talk to girls you dont know?
When i talk to girls i dont know, i dont what to talk about, so my question really is what are some conversation starters?

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Answer by Rudolf Qnan
say hi, how are you ?
What is your name? you should asked.. don’t use can word because that’s easy to answer with no.
lets say can I know your name? no..
then introduce your self …
then give her a compliment how her hair or eyes or how look she looks today..
and then ask for her number.. remember don’t use can… use what’s your number?

straight to the point …..

always smile

it takes confident …

shyness doesn’t really pay this time.

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GirlS Opinion!!! How to know if a girl would like to end or continue a text conversation?

Question by Nikeballer: GirlS Opinion!!! How to know if a girl would like to end or continue a text conversation?
Girls,how would you like know if you’d like to end a conversation during texting or continuing texting. like do you just ignore the text or what. There’d this girl i really like and her freinds all say that she likes me but i just dont know how to like text her. and of course if i cant text, you guessed it , i dont have a pair enough to ask her out either, so can you guys help me out plz!!

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Answer by Kayleen
i always text K or Ya. one word. if she texts more than one word just assume shes into you.

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Pretty little liars: How does A know everything that happens to the girls right now?

Question by omg: Pretty little liars: How does A know everything that happens to the girls right now?
A sends texts to the girls about the secrets that happen to them now. how can A know what that happens to them now?

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Answer by Pretty Little Liar
She/he is always somehow one step ahead, and remember, A is always watching him, and hears them and A probably goes into their houses while they are at school and looks at their stuff, who knows, but we’ll see 🙂

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Q&A: i wanna know about what themes you boys prefer to talk with girls?

Question by lily: i wanna know about what themes you boys prefer to talk with girls?
I wanna know some themes to talk with girls that you boys find interesting and makes the girl interesting or likable . I dont know if you get me cuz i speak spanish but i just want good themes to talk with boys.

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Answer by xxbbygrlxx662
I think what you are asking is what should you talk about with a boy, like, what topics they would like to talk about.

-sports
-movies
-video games

things like that.

Ask him questions about himself. What he likes to do for fun, does he have siblings, ask him things about school.

Good luck.

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Q&A: How can i talk to girls in the mall that i dont know?

Question by …: How can i talk to girls in the mall that i dont know?
Im 16 and me and my friends go to the mall sometimes, when we do they usually talk to girls alot and i dont. I want to but once it gets to the point when we talk to them i like freeze and cant say anything. how can i talk to them and start up a conversation, and im shy so ya, i really dont talk that much.

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Answer by Ionut F
dude, don´t worry, a lot of guy´s are shy, just be yourself, be natural, say something like hy, i like your pants or everything, then the things will just have the natural way… just be yourself, not pretend to be someone else, the girl´s hate that thing…

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