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Guys: Texting girls you like vs. girls who are just friends?

Question by Brianna: Guys: Texting girls you like vs. girls who are just friends?
Do you act differently when texting them? I have some guys who are strictly friends who respond to texts fairly quickly, within 5 minutes usually.
But then with the guy I like sometimes I don’t get a response for a few hours (but he always apologizes), and it usually takes him anywhere from 15-30 minutes to respond. Then occasionally I’ll get some responses within 10 minutes. And then our conversations usually drag on for half a day due to the long time between responses.. and I never get one worded answers, it’s a well thought out text. Do guys usually do this with girls they like or what? It keeps me on my toes when he doesn’t text back for a while..

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Answer by Mr. Handsome
Haha I used to do this to a girl(she’s my gf now)
Its because when she texts me, I don’t want to look desperate and reply immediately.
But sometimes I really can’t reply immediately because I’m doing something important.
But if she’s just my friend, I reply when I see it.

It’s like being fashionably late. 😀

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Q&A: Text or call a girl you just met?

Question by shakethejake08: Text or call a girl you just met?
I’m interested in this girl who I just met out at the bar friday night. We only danced for like 10-15 minutes but she came up to me and put her number in my phone. We texted a little that night and into the next day but not a whole lot. She seemed interested and was keeping a conversation going by asking questions and giving me more than a few word responses.

Anyways, I sent the last text yesterday afternoon that she never responded to. That’s cool because the conversation had to end somewhere. My question to you is should I call her or text her the next time I try to contact her? I feel that texting is more socially acceptable and would be the safest bet but I feel that a phone call that goes really would could have a huge upside to it. It also obviously has the biggest downside if it goes wrong haha.

In case you were wondering, I am 22 and a recent college graduate. She is about to be 21 and a junior in college. We only live 30 minutes away from one another (while she’s on break) and we met up downtown so there is always the possibility of that happening again.

Thanks in advance for the advice.

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Answer by Spade
Might as well text her. I mean… she did give you her number after all

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Girl never texts me first? Should I just keep texting her or wait?

Question by CC: Girl never texts me first? Should I just keep texting her or wait?
So there’s this girl that I like from school who never texts me first. The only times she texted me first was to wish me a happy birthday or to ask me a quick question. She’s been recently working a lot so I’m always wondering when she’s free but I feel like if I keep on texting her and asking I will get annoying after a while, so I told her the last time we spoke to text me when she’s free. She said she will do it but I have a feeling that she won’t going by previous experiences where I told her to text me her days available and she never did. Is not texting first just a thing all girls do? Should I keep on texting her and asking her when she’s available or should I wait and she if she texts me first?

PS. We’ve hung out a couple times so far this summer so it’s not like she’s trying to avoid me or anything like that.

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Answer by Mike
u text her first apparently, they like it that way ????? i no it sucks

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If you used to text a girl everyday, then she just stops texting you back, what does it mean?

Question by : If you used to text a girl everyday, then she just stops texting you back, what does it mean?
I used to text this girl everyday. She would text me first alot, but i always texted back. Then about a week ago, she just stopped texting me. She wont start a conversation and she wont reapond to my texts either. What does this mean?

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Answer by Dreamer362011
It means she lost all interest for you. Sorry I am a girl and that’s the truth. Or honestly may be she is testing u like most girls do and seeing how u will react text her! Once a day saying good morning! That will get her to respond.

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Would a girl text a guy everyday if she just wanted to be friends ?

Question by Shane: Would a girl text a guy everyday if she just wanted to be friends ?
So there is this girl and we text constantly usually until 1am almost everyday. We also usually text for over an hour. We haven’t been able to text because she has been working at a sleep away camp but recently got back. Since she got back we have been texting a lot about what has happened since we last spoke. She also has invited me over to her house a couple of times. So two questions, is this girl just being friendly and would a girl text and guy everyday if she just wanted to be friends

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Answer by Morgan
I would text a guy everyday if I just wanted to be friends but in this case it’s obvious she likes you more than friends. When you guys hangout look for signs as well as when you are texting. & you guys are texting till 1 in the morning thats definitly another sign. So yeah i don’t just think she’s being friendly.

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*What does it means if a girl text you everynight just to say good night?

Question by Colin: *What does it means if a girl text you everynight just to say good night?
What does it means if a girl text you every night just to say good night?she is the girl who I love alot but the problem is she had already have a boy friend 🙁 what should I do?

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Answer by A
Chances are she likes you!!! I did that when I had a boyfriend, and ended up with the other kid for a year and a half!

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What are some good things a shy guy can do to help find a girlfriend, I am shy so I can’t just talk to girls?

Question by New Yahoo Answers Stinks: What are some good things a shy guy can do to help find a girlfriend, I am shy so I can’t just talk to girls?
I am shy so don’t say just do it and it gets easier with time I am shy so I can’t talk to girls I am way too scared.

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Answer by ♥Becca
sorry to say, but JUST DO IT.

cuz when you do do it, even if you feel scared, you’ll get used to it and build confidence.. which will attract girls.

butttt you can meet a girl through a friend, that way you dont have to go approach a girl

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What do I say to a woman whos father just died?

Question by John: What do I say to a woman whos father just died?
I was texting this girl from a dating website and her father suddenly died. Its been a little over a week since then. What should I text her?

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Answer by suzie a
tell her that you are terribly sorry for her loss and if she needs someone to talk to you are here for her.

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Q&A: What should I text this girl after just getting her number?

Question by john j: What should I text this girl after just getting her number?
I just got this girls number and I am just wondering what to txt her. I will wait a day or so to txt her but after I say “hey how are you doing” or “hey whats up” where do i go from there. Also does anyone have tips/examples of how to be flirty through text messaging. Thanks everyone.

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Answer by thomastt_31
Women like to talk on the phone. If you text her and get a one word answer, your stuck. Nothing you can do? If you call her….shes a woman….there will be conversation……trust me!!!!!!!!!!!! After a week you’ll be wondering if she ever shuts up!

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Is it common for a girl to just stop texting rather than saying goodbye?

Question by Jo: Is it common for a girl to just stop texting rather than saying goodbye?
So i was texting a girl for a couple of hours last night and all of a sudden she just stopped responding. I left it alone and went to bed and she finally responded to my question the next morning (almost 12 hours later) and she said the reason she didn’t text back was because she went to bed. Is this common for a girl to do and why would she do it?
also what does it mean if anything?

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Answer by smile.
yeah i do that.

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