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Fear of talking to girls? Need help desperate!?

Question by Alex: Fear of talking to girls? Need help desperate!?
so im 16 years old, Male Im in year 11 and I go to a school with around 1500 students,
All my life I have never had a friend girl, Girls call me cute but it those Sl*tty ones that just talks to EVERYONE no matter what…
I need tips to how to talk to a girl,
please dont respond saying something like “Be nice, start of slow” Yes I know all of that but…
HOW DO YOU start a conversation in the first place? I cant go up to a girl and introduce myself in front of her because thats kinda weird and creepy…. I dont get how guys from lower grades can somehow ‘magically’ get with girls from year 12!!!
I want to talk to some girls ranging from year 10- year 12s…
Unfortunately all of my classes are mostly guys because i do woodwork, Metals, sports etc, with barely any girls…

Anyway I thought of this when i was in the library while staring O.o (creep lol) at those hot year 12 girls…. How would I meet them without looking weird, Also I got a bit of ACNE on my face which destroys my courage also :/…
PEACE OUT BROTHERS AND SISTERS!

Best answer:

Answer by Chrissy
Smile, say hello and have self confidence. Girls can tell right off the bat at a first glance of a guy if would be worth it or not and that comes from noticing if he has self confidence or not. Being good looking is a plus too. So start working on those things because frankly, if you don’t start changing your ways, you are never going to get laid.

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Help Texting a Girl? 10Pts?

Question by Max: Help Texting a Girl? 10Pts?
When I text a girl, do I need to ask her a school related question? or can I just say: “Hey, whats up?”

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Answer by Tiffany
Just text her like you would anyone else she wont bite 🙂

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shy to talk wid girls?? help?

Question by some dude: shy to talk wid girls?? help?
hey am 15 nd i have like 5 really good friends nd like 5-6 other friends in school that u know r just friends. I only go out wid my 2 close friends who r popular. they both have girlfriends nd they r good wid talking to girls. Am not? except if they r like unpopular girls like i get really talkative nd start to talk and talk. but when my freinds introduce me to really hot girls i get all shy nd stuff. plus i have really low self esteem when i see other guys who r girl magnets plz help!!!!
thx to you guys that answered!=) yeah about my writing i like to write like this lol.

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Answer by Bob
k lol

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I cant talk to girls i like! HELP!?

Question by Ian: I cant talk to girls i like! HELP!?
Hello, I am 13 and I cant talk to girls —>I LIKE <--- I can talk to girls I am not attracted to but ones I like its hard when I try my mind just goes blank and I don't know what to say and I blush and get nervous. does anybody have any tips so I can fix this Best answer:

Answer by Sophie
Pretend that they are just like any other girl, it may be difficult, but just try your best to be casual about it 🙂

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Q&A: I was texting this girl and then… help?

Question by TheOneTwo: I was texting this girl and then… help?
Alright, so I was texting this girl with quick responses, being 1 to 5 minutes between each. Then I was joking/teasing about something (not directly at her in a mean way) and then she was like I can’t believe this.. blah blah blah really think I would make this up?” so that was the last thing. Then I replied and received no acknowledgement of course.
Also, I had set up a date for a few days in advance. What the crap am I supposed to do? I don’t want to come off as needy or whatever that crap is called when you text them again and again with no replies. I have to keep in touch to make sure the date is still being planned on My point is I can’t mess this up or she’ll bail on me lol

Best answer:

Answer by Baking
she wants the D

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Q&A: is texting another girl considered cheating?!? help !?

Question by : is texting another girl considered cheating?!? help !?
i have a girlfriend and we been together for almost 2 years now. i recently met this girl at a party about 2 weeks ago, and she added me on facebook and got my number. we started texting and i didn’t think too much of it, and we also talked on facebook. then i finally realized that things were getting out of hand, because she would send me pictures of her. not nude pictures or anything, just like regular pictures. i think its getting out of hand. do i have to tell my girlfriend about this or just let it slide? personally i dont think its considered cheating. she talks to other guys on facebook all the time, what do you think?

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Answer by Jessica V
does she know about ur gf??

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Q&A: Help with texting a girl I like?

Question by : Help with texting a girl I like?
Im texting this girl I like and Ive allready asked her out on a date (she said yes 😀 ) and when Im texting her she either answers my questions and doesnt say anything or just answers one word. I asked her if Im bugging her but she said its just a bad habbit she has when texting. I keep asking her dumb questions about the same subject (her moving) and its getting REALLY old and I feel stupid. I need some tips on what to say or talk about. ANY help would be great! Thanks!
I know everyone says to stop texting or to call/see her in person but Im afraid calling or seeing her will be awkward, I dont wanna stop texting her alltogether and seem like an asshole?
I was texting her and asked a question and she answered very vaguely and 10mins after me not responding she texted me again answering with alot more detail and said somethin else, that mean anything?

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Answer by fox
stop texting and ring her if you want to talk

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Girl question… help?>?

Question by Grant: Girl question… help?>?
ok so ive talked to this girl (that i really like) 3 times on facebook (nvr in real life) and shes started 2 of the conversations…. so anyways… im friends with her on facebook and tumblr. on facebook someone said they needed someone to text… and i posted me too… then about 1 minute later she posted on tumblr that she was bored and wanted to text someone, and they should message her for her #…. is this a coincidence or was she aiming it at me?

also she deleted that post after like 15 minutes because i think one of her followers actually tried to text her lol.

Best answer:

Answer by Asmith
Text her or talk to her in person.. the worst that could happen is she turns you down

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Q&A: A twenty-one year old needs embarrassing help texting a girl?

Question by John: A twenty-one year old needs embarrassing help texting a girl?
I have been out of the whole dating seen for just about four years. Mostly because I dated the same girl for three years starting in 2008. I worked at a job in my college and started to like this girl who was very, very shy. She was pretty much the only girl I’ve liked in about four years, so I relatively became obsessed with her (I’m not creepy). Basically, I don’t work at this job anymore and haven’t for about two weeks. I could tell she liked me in a way because sometimes I caught her staring at me and since she was really shy, she really started to open up to me towards the end. Anyway, this is where the problem starts. I have her phone number because I got it accidentally because I lost my phone one day. Since I haven’t worked there in two weeks and haven’t seen her in two weeks. I texted her and she texts back immediately, but doesn’t exactly ask me questions. She just kinda responds to what I have to say in the text and that’s about it. I haven’t texted her in six days and she has never texted me first. So, here’s the thing. I figured if she was in to me, she would ask me questions in texting and text me first every once in a while. You know? I have had plenty of girls in the past year text me first and I always immediately texted back because I wanted to be nice. I would never date these girls, but I would text back immediately to not hurt their feelings. So, (sorry this is so long, this has just been bothering me for a while) should I text her today? Or figure if you’re not going to text me you’re not worth my time. I would really like some input, because is she really this shy or is she really not that into me?

Best answer:

Answer by ThatGirl
call her. do you know her interests?… seems to me she needs a good time….
it’s not rocket science bro.

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Help texting this girl please?

Question by urepkj: Help texting this girl please?
So I got this girls number about a week and a half ago and we”ve been texting every da. I just over think things but the first 5 das or so all our texts were !!!’s and stuff like that, now onl once in a while texts are like that. She even texts me first half of the time too though hah I even asked her out and she said hell yeah! hah I think Im just over thinking things??? Also, how can i tell her i thinks shes cute in a smooth way when making plans to take her out?? THANKs!!!!!!

Best answer:

Answer by Cody
Say things with confidence. Be yourself. Good luck.

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