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Was this weird or good to text a girl after a first date?

Question by SCTrojan: Was this weird or good to text a girl after a first date?
I wasn’t totally sure how she felt after the first date but I really liked this girl who I took out last night. She has great values and is a strong Christian which I love. I sent her a text the day after/just right now that says:

“Hey, i had a great time last night and i think you are really special”

Was that a good thing to say or would you be weirded out?

Best answer:

Answer by hidden honesty.
aww that text is well sweet 🙂 i’d be chuffed

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Is it bad thing to text a girl first?

Question by chris: Is it bad thing to text a girl first?
I have been talking to this girl for over a month now. 3 dates, we spent new years with her and her family introduced me go her son all in a month. She cancelled a date on me once and we haven’t had a full conversion in a little over 3 days. Now is it always a bad thing to her first? She has text me first on two occasions but it’s been awhile since then. What do you guys think?

Best answer:

Answer by Harrison
Oooh bad sign bro. Technically when girls cancel plans and when they stop texting you, things are looking bleak in your relationship.
Look, the only real way to find out is to ask her, either by text or in person.
Good luck~

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Do u think it’s weird if a girl texts first?

Question by Nicki: Do u think it’s weird if a girl texts first?
so me and my guy friend were talking (were in 8th gr.) and I Said “we never text” and he said “ya and I said “well u have to text first bcuz it’s weird for girls to text first” and his face scrunched up and said “uh no girls should text first and Its weird if a guy texts first” I was shocked. my other friend who was a girl said “wow. girls shouldn’t text first” and that was the end of the conversation. do u think it’s weird for a girl to text first? shouldn’t a guy text first?

Best answer:

Answer by Leesha Lizard
well 8th grade, immature. he probably just wants you to text him first, because it builds his confidence and makes him feel like you like him, which makes him feel like he has power being the one who is getting texted. guys are weird with that stuff and always try to be the better one.

it’s not weird if girls text first at all

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Do guys like when girls text them first..?

Question by Sarah

Why do girls like getting texts (and first texts) from guys…?

Question by ~Pr*nce~: Why do girls like getting texts (and first texts) from guys…?
Q.1 So why do you girls like getting texts from guys? And do you still like the attention I guess that you get even if it is from someone you are not really interested in?

Q.2 If a guy texts you, do you assume he like you? (if you don’t know him well)

Best answer:

Answer by Fuzzy_rave_girl
sometimes, most girls don’t. girls like it when a guy texts them first because it shows that they are thinking about you

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Q&A: should a girl text a guy first?

Question by Gabe: should a girl text a guy first?
one of my friends told me that the girl should text the guy first but i always text girls first!?

Best answer:

Answer by Epic
Be a man take the lead

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Girl never texts me first? Should I just keep texting her or wait?

Question by CC: Girl never texts me first? Should I just keep texting her or wait?
So there’s this girl that I like from school who never texts me first. The only times she texted me first was to wish me a happy birthday or to ask me a quick question. She’s been recently working a lot so I’m always wondering when she’s free but I feel like if I keep on texting her and asking I will get annoying after a while, so I told her the last time we spoke to text me when she’s free. She said she will do it but I have a feeling that she won’t going by previous experiences where I told her to text me her days available and she never did. Is not texting first just a thing all girls do? Should I keep on texting her and asking her when she’s available or should I wait and she if she texts me first?

PS. We’ve hung out a couple times so far this summer so it’s not like she’s trying to avoid me or anything like that.

Best answer:

Answer by Mike
u text her first apparently, they like it that way ????? i no it sucks

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Q&A: Who sends the first text? Guy or girl?

Question by Amber: Who sends the first text? Guy or girl?
So me and my bf are always arguing about this…. So who’s supposed to text the other first? The guy or the girl?

Best answer:

Answer by Kyle
In todays day and age, you both are right, it doesn’t matter who sends the text first. If two people care about each other, then either one can show the other they care about texting first. And I know I don’t speak for all guys, but personally I love it when a girl takes some initiative, because it drives me nuts when girls are all about equal rights, and everything is equal (which I 100% agree with) but then go and expect the guy to make all the decisions.

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A girl I like doesn’t text first but will respond when I text as soon as possible?

Question by Aadf: A girl I like doesn’t text first but will respond when I text as soon as possible?
She has only texted first a couple times but it was only to ask for help on homework and once because I asked her to tell me about the activity she was going going to do that day after it had happened. Usually I only text if I have a reason to or if I’m really bored and have something to talk about. She will usually send pretty long responses to my texts but only asks questions in some of them. I don’t really text her that much because I do have 2 classes with her and we talk in our group of friends then, but I’m wondering.

Does she really want to text me? I usually find myself leading the conversation.

Best answer:

Answer by Junior
Whether she texts first or not does not really say much cuz some girls don’t like to text guys first. But if she lets the conversation die after a couple of texts, she probably does not want to text. Don’t try and carry it on if she let’s it die and you started the conversation.

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GUYS: How often do you send the first text to girls?

Question by Omifizzle: GUYS: How often do you send the first text to girls?
I have always wondered this. It would be a little weird to ask one of my friends. But how often do you do you send the first text. Im not a fan of texting and i rarely text people, the only time i do text is when someone texts me first. How often do you send the first text to a girl, or do girls send you the first text more often? (like give me a % of how often)
Its not a girl i am going out with, so wouldn’t it be weird saying whats up when she wakes up in the morning..?

Best answer:

Answer by Paul O’donnell
To answer your question: 90% of the time.

useless info?
Thats because I text a “good morning” and the occasional “good morning, beautiful!” to the girl I like haha and that usually starts a day long conversation. Its not hard to hold one, but I much prefer calling myself :/ unfortunately minutes are limited 🙁

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