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Q&A: How to start conversations over text?

Question by Andrew: How to start conversations over text?
So I’m interested in a girl (we’re both freshmen in HS) and I have her # and stuff but I’m just not sure of how to start a conversation with her. We only have 1 class together (it’s almost summer so that doesn’t matter anyway) but its just hard to think of a way to start a conversation over text. I’d appreciate any help.

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Answer by Kaylee
Uh… You say hi then what’s up? Then it just goes from there. Normally she’ll tell you what she’s doing then asked you what you’re doing. Just be sure to say something a little more exciting than “nothin'”. She won’t want to respond to that. Something like “Watching this new show “blahjsjsj”, it’s hilarious, have you seen it?” or if you’re gutsy, “just thinking about this really pretty girl” will spark a conversation.

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How to start text conversations with a guy I’ve been talking to?

Question by ~Hayley.In.Love~: How to start text conversations with a guy I’ve been talking to?
So there’s this guy I’ve been talking to and we text a lot especially on the weekends when we don’t see each other at school. I just need ideas for some flirty things to say to start conversations. I think it’d be fun to play 20 questions but I don’t really know how to start that. Any ideas would be helpful? Thanks! (:

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Answer by wildflower
Hey hon, guys don’t really like to text longer than a few 10 minutes or so. It is boring to them. They will “tolerate” it sometimes… IF he likes the girl. But guys don’t have a need to text unless he is trying to kill time. Girls looooooooove to text and ventilate, but guys aren’t into it. If you want to make a connection with a guy, you’ll be way more successful with face to face encounters.

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Q&A: Why can’t people learn to text real conversations instead of one word responses?

Question by Kennedy: Why can’t people learn to text real conversations instead of one word responses?
It gets me upset when I text someone and they just respond either to oh, ok, oh ok , yea , cool , lml , lmao , lmfao , idk , especially K. When it comes to girls giving me one word responses I just either don’t answer back or get upset.

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Answer by Malkiin
then stop texting them

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How to not have boring text conversations?

Question by alex: How to not have boring text conversations?
I’ve been texting this girl I like but our conversations always end up to be boring. How can I make them more interesting?

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Answer by mb
give her a scientific question. And then give her a point for something. like question of the day.

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How do you get a guy talking during text conversations?

Question by Amanda: How do you get a guy talking during text conversations?
I’ve noticed (and its not just me, my friends agree with me) that guys usually don’t say much over text. Are they annoyed? Because I always feel like I am the one to keep the conversation going. The only time my bf ever really had a conversation with me over text was after we broke up and it was about the presidential election. We were fine when we were around each other and he actually talked to me. It’s the same with all my other guy friends. Any good ideas to get them interested in the conversation?

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Answer by Lola M
yea i know!! theyll just answer like “yea” or “cool” when i say like a 5 page essay! it anoys me sooo much…but try to talk about things they relate too…ask if they won their football game or what tv show theyre watching

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What are some interesting conversations to text a girl?

Question by footballgod1016: What are some interesting conversations to text a girl?
There is this 15 year old girl that i really like, and when i text her it always seems like the simple, Hi! How are you? type of conversation It doesn’t usually last that long either. We talk just fine in school but when it comes to texting its kinda simple and boring. So how can i keep the text interesting?

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Answer by transom
tell her you really like her shoes. then complement her clothes. then ask her something off the wall that she might be into, if you know her well enough to know what she might be into.

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Q&A: What are some good topic conversations to text a girl about?

Question by : What are some good topic conversations to text a girl about?
I am friends with this girl i like and i texted her today, she and i flirt a little (i am a guy) but for future references, what are some good topic starters?

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Answer by Bob Bo
Tell her your a woman that will make for an interesting conversation

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How long should text conversations be with a girl I like?

Question by Bobby: How long should text conversations be with a girl I like?
Ive been txting this girl but they have been short conversations because we only met once an don’t know what to really talk about. We flirt though in our texts. Is it okay of they are short conversations cuz I don’t want to keep rambling like “so what are you doing right now?”

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Answer by ?
It is okay….but if you ask…it is good too…

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