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How to talk to girls at bars or clubs?

Question by Sam: How to talk to girls at bars or clubs?
This is my first year in college and I’m having a tough time talking to girls at bars/clubs. It’s different than just talking to girls outside in other settings. I feel like I need to know the right thing to say immediately when I’m at bars or clubs though.

So my question is, what are some good ways to talk to them or get them to dance? And what exactly demonstrates confidence there? Even if I get turned down.

Best answer:

Answer by Frank
Talk to them like you’d talk to a friend. Don’t be contrived. If things are going well, ask her what her favorite drink is and then surprise her with it later…then tell her she owes you the next round.

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How do you talk to girls in clubs, bars, and frat parties?

Question by Crispus E. Shays: How do you talk to girls in clubs, bars, and frat parties?
I’m so good at talking to girls in the morning and getting their number, then getting them to come over the night after or something, for a drink or whatever.

But, I suck at trying to talk to girls in any night life setting. In any club, bar, or frat party, even if it was my own frat. How do I talk to girls at night?

Apparently, caffeine, as opposed to alcohol, is my energy drug.

Best answer:

Answer by stayin alive
You actually don’t have to do much verbal communication at these kind of parties. It’s more based on the body language when you start dancing with each other. It sounds like you have no problem communicating with women in general but parties at night needs a different approach.
You could get a friend to introduce you to girls to show rapport and ease the transition. When you start dancing get her out to a quiet area and then talk normally.

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