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my boyfriend has been texting this girl…i need advice!?

Question by 1qaz2wsx: my boyfriend has been texting this girl…i need advice!?
so i just found out that my boyfriend has been texting this girl for a while.
i didn’t know this…the chick says that they are Just friends..
but my friends saw texts on her phone of her and my bf talking about taking a shower together and that would be “super hot, but you would never do it.” <--that's what he said. when i asked the chick about it, she said that it was just joking around. but i guess he did call her "babe" on multiple occasions. so my question is, i know this isn't cheating, but they've been flirting and he's called her hot and "babe" is that ok? or should i be mad about that... Best answer:

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My boyfriend has been texting another girl, what should I do?

Question by Jessica Harvey: My boyfriend has been texting another girl, what should I do?
We have been together 1 year and 4 months. I am currently 37 weeks pregnant. He never gave me any reason not to trust him before we live together he is always with me if he is not at work. I went to turn his phone off the other morning and for the first time in our entire relationship I looked through his phone and noticed two girls he was texting. He was calling them boo boo and babe and one of the girls sent him pictures (not naked or bad at all just a picture of herself dressed up in the mirror) and his reply was “I already got that one women you trying to be slick” so I have no idea how long this has been going on. He says it hasn’t been more then a month but one of the girls I know he just got her number. Later when I asked he said these girls were his coworkers. I never been in a relationship where I had so much trust for someone and now I just feel so hurt dumb and betrayed. I tried breaking up with him and I told him he needs to move out and we are done and he can talk to as many girls as he wants. He says he’s so sorry and he’s done talking to them and he never meant to hurt me and he loves me and doesn’t want to lose me and he doesn’t want to be with anyone else and we have a family and I can’t give up on that. I love him very much but father of my child or not I don’t want to be mistreated and I don’t know if I will ever be able to trust him again…I understand people flirt with coworkers that’s expected but when you take it out of work your crossing a line. I don’t know if I should break up our home that was/is so full of love or give him a second chance and try to rebuild my trust. It’s a hard situation. He says I owe him a second chance because 4 months after we were together I had some friends at my apartment and I went to bed with my best girl friend and during the night my guy friend got off the couch and came and layed with the two of us but early in the morning my girl friend got up and left and he came to my house and seen this guy in bed with me and even though I know nothing happened, he didn’t and gave me a second chance and rebuilt his trust for me and now look how far we have come…and I get where he is coming from but in my mind I know I didn’t do anything wrong and I didn’t have control of the kid laying in my bed whereas he intentionally contacted these girls got their numbers was calling them names he calls me and sending pictures… any advice of personal testimonials would be great I am very confused.

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Answer by Driving naked 69
Look. We all F up….. We are not perfect.
Give him another chance. If he does it again than….
time to move on. Fair???

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Ok so ive been texting this girl and idk if she likes me?

Question by : Ok so ive been texting this girl and idk if she likes me?
Ok So ive been texting this girl ive met on facebook, and we have alot in common. and we’ve been texting for a few days mostly thoughout the whole day, she wants to hang out, etc. but seems to be interested when making comments on needing a bf and etc. what do you think? what should i do?

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Answer by ERICK
if you think you two are getting close. definatly go out with her and see how things go

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How to start text conversations with a guy I’ve been talking to?

Question by ~Hayley.In.Love~: How to start text conversations with a guy I’ve been talking to?
So there’s this guy I’ve been talking to and we text a lot especially on the weekends when we don’t see each other at school. I just need ideas for some flirty things to say to start conversations. I think it’d be fun to play 20 questions but I don’t really know how to start that. Any ideas would be helpful? Thanks! (:

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Answer by wildflower
Hey hon, guys don’t really like to text longer than a few 10 minutes or so. It is boring to them. They will “tolerate” it sometimes… IF he likes the girl. But guys don’t have a need to text unless he is trying to kill time. Girls looooooooove to text and ventilate, but guys aren’t into it. If you want to make a connection with a guy, you’ll be way more successful with face to face encounters.

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Q&A: What kind of girl calls you after a guys been ignoring them for some time and not calling/texting them?

Question by A A: What kind of girl calls you after a guys been ignoring them for some time and not calling/texting them?
Do most girls call guys out of the blue if the guy stopped calling and texting them and why?

Or if it’s rare what kind of girl does this? Are they to be trusted?

Basically I stopped calling/texting a girl alot because she only wanted to be friends and I don’t really want that. Then after a lil over a month she calls me.

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Answer by AVWgirl
Most likely they were muslead and in my case being gas lighted to believe i am crazy like a stalker i havent never had ill will and done that but now im pissed so im texting his parents also girls do that when immature guys lead them on through trying to own them it wouldnt b out of the blue if yall wete dating a little at anypoint in that there was a reason you dint talk that long.

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