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How can i overcome my fear of talking to girls… Im shy Also good ways to approach girls at a mall?

Question by Mike Fudala: How can i overcome my fear of talking to girls… Im shy Also good ways to approach girls at a mall?
Well im 16 and i talk to some girls but it awkward because i dunno what to really talk about we talk for 5-10 minutes then i dunno what else to talk about…
Im really talkative around ppl i know but around girls im not…

Also what are some good ways to approach girls at a mall or something?

Best answer:

Answer by Zelda
There is really nothing fundamentally different about talking to girls and talking to guys, but sometimes it can be hard for your subconscious to acknowledge that. Think just about what you talk about to your other friends and then talk about that.

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How to approach a girl that you have not spoken to?

Question by Need advice: How to approach a girl that you have not spoken to?
I have never had a conversation with this girl face to face, however i see her everyday and near enough talk to her through the computer and text everyday to. Its just hard to approach her as everything has been said over virtual conversation lol, doe sit mean anything also to talk allot but not face to face? thanks

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Answer by Jay Sharky
Why the heck are you not talking in person? Why not just go up to her and say hi and then just talk normally. What gives?

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What are Filipino culture like when you approach and talk to girls at bar or anywhere in the philippines?

Question by americanstar: What are Filipino culture like when you approach and talk to girls at bar or anywhere in the philippines?
What are Filipino culture like when you approach and talk or ask girls for phone number at bar/nightclub or anywhere in the Philippines?

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Answer by Tropic-of-Cancer
Bar or night club is very different, than say meeting someone by chance in the mall or wherever. Now if you like the lady, then you will ask to meet her with a couple of companions, such as her brother and his wife. Or whomsoever she chooses. You will pay the bill for all. After the first or second date, you will be expected to meet the family (extended family that is.) You will be asked as to your intentions towards their relative. Usually her father.

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Q&A: What is the best way to approach this situation?

Question by Megan: What is the best way to approach this situation?
So, I’m 21 and the guy is 33. He used to be my manager, but switched areas. While he was my manager, he waved all of my absences so that I wouldn’t get in trouble for them. He would always give me more hours, call me in, etc., and always made small remarks about me/my attitude/etc. Once, when I was upset over my ex, he was really sweet and consoled me and bumped my shoulder, trying to make me laugh. He gave me his number when he was selling his motorbike so that I could look around and try and find someone to sell it to, but ever since he changed areas, we’ve been texting outside of work. He initiated the first text after he changed areas when he was at the airport going on his vacation. Since then, I’ve mostly initiated the text conversations. Recently, about a few months ago, I broke up with my ex and ever since he (the manager) found out, he’s texted me more frequently. He didn’t know that I was single until I was texting him, saying how cold I was, and he said, “Don’t you have anyone to cuddle?” I told him, no, I’ve been single for awhile, so I don’t have anyone. The next day, we were texting for a lot longer than usual. And then, recently, I texted him saying my plans got cancelled and I was bored and he asked who I had plans with, “A boyfriend ;)” and when I said no, he went, “A romantic friend, then?” and I said no to that, too. Also, he keeps bringing up these movies he wants to see, one of them he knew I would see, and I suggested we go see it and told him to tell me when he wanted to go since he’s more busy and he said that sounded good.

But he said he’s not interested in anyone from work and also that he has his guard up against women right now because he’s scarred from his last relationship. Yet he acts like he’s interested in something more.

Just tonight, he was walking through my department aimlessly and I asked him what he was doing. He had just gotten there, but he said, “I was just getting away from the office. What are you doing?” so I told him and then he followed me and we were talking for awhile, some of it was personal and then it turned to work, but he was asking me when I was going to quit this place. I told him hopefully soon.

So, it almost sounds like he doesn’t want to make any moves because he’s a manager and employees aren’t allowed to see managers, but at the same time, he’s making it out that he doesn’t want to see anyone. My coworker thinks that he’s definitely into me and all my other coworkers used to joke about how we would make a cute couple.

What should I do with this situation?
It’s not that I’m desperate and it’s not that big of an age gap. I have other guys that are interested in me and I’ve tried going out w/them, but at the end of the day, I end up wanting to talk to him. I like him a lot, which is the biggest problem. We’ve known each other for a year, but have only not been working together for a couple months.

Best answer:

Answer by Benjamin
Forget it, he was in 6th grade when you were born, I’ve never seen anyone this desperate

If he’s 23 your 21 then you made a typo
After a hard day, ask him if he wants a drink, don’t get too close, and start a relationship from there

PS it’s best to ignore me since I’m way younger than both of you

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Q&A: How do guys approach talking to girls?

Question by Cocanut95: How do guys approach talking to girls?
Will guys still talk to girls that aren’t incredibly skinny?
I have noticed that all of the perfect girls are always talking to guys and those same guys ignore me and i am not fat or ugly
will guys ever talk to me?

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Answer by Paul
yes. actually, it hurts my eyes to look at incredibly skinny girls.

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