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I found an inappropriate conversation my boyfriend had with another girl should I dump him?

Question by Jenette: I found an inappropriate conversation my boyfriend had with another girl should I dump him?
I’m not sure what to make of his. I have found these conversation my boyfriend had with this girl. I think she’s an ex girlfriend. My boyfriend was the one who text her first and asked her questions like if she found a boyfriend yet, and he said she’s still single but interested in someone. My boyfriend then asked her if she still looks at porn and horny. The girl made it clear that he is aware that he’s in a relationship and long story short he had asked her if he still has feelings for him and she said alittle and she asked him the same question and he told her that he can’t answer that question but that she was a really nice girl. He wants to remain in contact with this girl but this girl said that she has to respect that he has a girlfriend so only contact her once in awhile.
There is no possible way to list their entire conversation but this girl appears to be innocent and she doesn’t want to ruin our relationship.
The girl said that she thinks it would be a good idea not to talk anymore and my boyfriend appeared to want to keep in contact with her for whatever reason.

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Answer by Kennedy
i was in a similar situation.. dump him before it gets worse and hurts even more

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My boyfriend is texting another girl. should i trust him?

Question by : My boyfriend is texting another girl. should i trust him?
My boyfriend and I have been together 4 and a half years. The first 2 years were really rough. It was him stringing me along, could never decide whether he really wanted to be with me or not. He has chosen other girls over me several times. I would tell him if he didn’t stop talking to these other girls then I would break up with him and I was tired of being his second choice. And he would choose them. Even when I told him to get out of my life he always came back. Ok…having said that, we eventually sorted things out. He decided he wanted to be with me and we have been together straight for almost 3 years now. He has made so much progress and he is much different and a lot more caring.
Ok..so my question is…he has been texting this girl from work. I have confronted him about it before. The first time he got mad. And it took him forever for me to get it out of me that I still have trouble trusting him, I know no guy wants to have a jealous girlfriend. And I hate coming off that way but I feel also I have a good reason to be cautious. I just hate bringing it up but he has been texting her often and he rarely texts people. What should I do?
I should also add that another reason why I am suspicious is because everytime I hear him talk about this girl he says how much of a bimbo or a ***** she is. If that is the case why does he text her, almost flirting with her if that is what he really thinks? Thanks for the answers I’m just really confused.

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Answer by dr.golgi 356
um.. first off I’d like to say just don’t worry about it never just get all upset when your guy is just talking or even texting another girl i mean if he ends up liking her more than you and going off with her than he’s not right for you and everything works it self out and if not than nothing happens so you shouldn’t worry about it. also its probably just a friend i have a lot of girls that im friends with who can be bit ch es
so yeah

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Q&A: is texting another girl considered cheating?!? help !?

Question by : is texting another girl considered cheating?!? help !?
i have a girlfriend and we been together for almost 2 years now. i recently met this girl at a party about 2 weeks ago, and she added me on facebook and got my number. we started texting and i didn’t think too much of it, and we also talked on facebook. then i finally realized that things were getting out of hand, because she would send me pictures of her. not nude pictures or anything, just like regular pictures. i think its getting out of hand. do i have to tell my girlfriend about this or just let it slide? personally i dont think its considered cheating. she talks to other guys on facebook all the time, what do you think?

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Answer by Jessica V
does she know about ur gf??

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Q&A: Another case of the text to another girl…?

Question by Janemay: Another case of the text to another girl…?
I’ve been seeing this man for about 3 months now. Things are cool between us. Not too serious, We’re just taking it slow. He says he doesn’t want a girlfriend because he doesn’t have the time for one. Anyways, I found texts in his phone to another girl talking about “good morning, beautiful” she said she wasn’t feeling well and he said to her “someone needs to make you dinner” she said she looks terrible and doesn’t want to see anyone. He said ” well, we need to see the good and bad of each other”. I confronted him about it and he insisted she is just a good friend and they’ve known each other for a very long time. I am not oblivious and wasn’t born yesterday. Obviously, Hes got a thing for her. I know they never see eachother because He is very busy and spends a majority of his free time with me. He said that him and her are nothing like him and I. nonetheless, It’s crap that he’s lying to me. I told him I need to talk to him about it but if he keeps on lying what am I suppose to do? How do you think I should handle this situation?

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Answer by George
you shoulda waited a bit longer, because some people actually are close friends with people like that, it mighta just been harmless flirting, some guys do have that girl that they just like to text like that. if you are so sure hes cheating or doing something wrong, then why are you on yahoo answers? alotta guys like to still talk to girls when they have a girlfriend, sorry to tell you that.

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My boyfriend has been texting another girl, what should I do?

Question by Jessica Harvey: My boyfriend has been texting another girl, what should I do?
We have been together 1 year and 4 months. I am currently 37 weeks pregnant. He never gave me any reason not to trust him before we live together he is always with me if he is not at work. I went to turn his phone off the other morning and for the first time in our entire relationship I looked through his phone and noticed two girls he was texting. He was calling them boo boo and babe and one of the girls sent him pictures (not naked or bad at all just a picture of herself dressed up in the mirror) and his reply was “I already got that one women you trying to be slick” so I have no idea how long this has been going on. He says it hasn’t been more then a month but one of the girls I know he just got her number. Later when I asked he said these girls were his coworkers. I never been in a relationship where I had so much trust for someone and now I just feel so hurt dumb and betrayed. I tried breaking up with him and I told him he needs to move out and we are done and he can talk to as many girls as he wants. He says he’s so sorry and he’s done talking to them and he never meant to hurt me and he loves me and doesn’t want to lose me and he doesn’t want to be with anyone else and we have a family and I can’t give up on that. I love him very much but father of my child or not I don’t want to be mistreated and I don’t know if I will ever be able to trust him again…I understand people flirt with coworkers that’s expected but when you take it out of work your crossing a line. I don’t know if I should break up our home that was/is so full of love or give him a second chance and try to rebuild my trust. It’s a hard situation. He says I owe him a second chance because 4 months after we were together I had some friends at my apartment and I went to bed with my best girl friend and during the night my guy friend got off the couch and came and layed with the two of us but early in the morning my girl friend got up and left and he came to my house and seen this guy in bed with me and even though I know nothing happened, he didn’t and gave me a second chance and rebuilt his trust for me and now look how far we have come…and I get where he is coming from but in my mind I know I didn’t do anything wrong and I didn’t have control of the kid laying in my bed whereas he intentionally contacted these girls got their numbers was calling them names he calls me and sending pictures… any advice of personal testimonials would be great I am very confused.

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Answer by Driving naked 69
Look. We all F up….. We are not perfect.
Give him another chance. If he does it again than….
time to move on. Fair???

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my boyfriend is texting another girl, is he cheating?

Question by Brittanie: my boyfriend is texting another girl, is he cheating?
I noticed that my boyfriend this weekend was constantly texting this other girl when I was with him all weekend. I never actually read the texts but I noticed he was texting her the whole time. At one point I did see one text from her that said “I miss you times a thousand! :)” and when i saw it he grabbed his phone quickly. Later on when i casually asked him who he was texting he said his friend lauren but this was at 2am.. when i know it was that other girl because thats who he was talking to all day. I have no reason to not trust him its just the fact that he pulled his phone away so quickly when he saw that i saw the text from her. I always saw in the past that this same girl was drawling pictures for him and posting them on his facebook wall in the past 2 or 3 weeks and saying “this is why i didnt text you back! hehe” I want to ask him like what the deal is like if shes just a friend or something without automatically accusing him of cheating or anything. Does anyone have any ideas to how to go about it?
thanks!

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Answer by Alex
Just because he is texting someone else it doesn’t mean he is cheating. If he was cheating he would blow you off and go hang with her instead. They are just friends it seems like.

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Hes texting to another girl…?

Question by 😀: Hes texting to another girl…?
OK me and this guy have been seeing each other for like 3 weeks… and i like him. I messed up things.
This guy is always telling me that i act all “whatever” towards him that he doesn’t feel as if am interested(cause im not very flirty). Like 2 weeks ago he texted me saying “we should just be friends” ugh he confused me so i just agreed and told him” i guess”..

He texted me back and was mad hes all “fine whatever”…after that he hasn’t been texting me like before.. Like he used to send me a text every morning and now he doesn’t…2 days after that happened I text him asking him what was wrong and why he was acting all “whatever” towards me and he said “cuz you do” hes all “you act all uninterested” and I texted him and told him that i was interested and that i DID like him.

I thought that by me telling him i liked him he would feel better since hes always saying that i don’t….SO now he hasn’t been texting me! today he didn’t at all. Last week he texted “hey stranger” and we were texting but its not like before he hasnt texted me in 5 days… And i found out hes been texting a girl that i know who btw is ugly and a slut….what should i do i was starting to like him. Do just forget about him..?

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Answer by Dan
Forget about him, obviously there is nothing there and he is more interested in another girl. If you persist on this it will just end badly, no doubt in my mind.

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Would you be okay with your boyfriend texting another girl everyday?

Question by Dahlia: Would you be okay with your boyfriend texting another girl everyday?
I told him it made me uncomfortable, but he insists that they’re just friends. But if they’re just friends why won’t he stop texting her everyday knowing I’m uncomfortable with it? And I’m not saying he can’t have female friends, but texting the girl everyday is a bit much, right?

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Answer by Love
i wouldn’t be ok with it. i have a a lot of guy friends but they don’t text me EVERY DAY. Maybe a 2-3 times a week just a short conversation. If he’s texting her every day quite a bit a day something’s up.

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Why do I get so jealous whenever my boyfriend talks to another girl?

Question by Cyanide Suicide: Why do I get so jealous whenever my boyfriend talks to another girl?
Whenever I see him talk to another girl, even if it’s facebook or Skype or anything I get really jealous. It’s ridiculous. Ive know him for a year and we’ve been dating for six months. He has a lot of female friends and he talks to them often and it drives me up a wall. I CONSTANTLY see him sweet talking other girls. It really gets under my skin.

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Answer by DollFace
If hes sweet talking hes sweet cheating

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I sent a text 24 hours ago, they never responded, is it alright to send another text message to them?

Question by Jarrod: I sent a text 24 hours ago, they never responded, is it alright to send another text message to them?
I sent a text to this girl over 24 hours ago. She hasn’t responded to it (I only sent 1). Is it alright if I send another text to her? I don’t want to sound desperate or annoying.
The thing is though I told her to text me the next day.

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Answer by Charizard-rockers!
Being a girl it drives me up the wall when guys don’t answer my texts for ages
Most girls like to txt back quick so text her again but not three times
She was probably just busy
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