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Q&A: Should I text this girl now and what should I say if I dooooo?

Question by : Should I text this girl now and what should I say if I dooooo?
So this girl texted me first on monday (because i guess she must of felt bad for being a ***** to me on sunday) and we talked the whole night and had a great time. I know its small but when I said goodnight I said “goodnight!” and she said “night jake :)”. In past times she usually has just done the exclamation mark.

I know I’m over thinking that part but who knows..Basically we talked in person tuesday and I didn’t text her that day. But Wednesday, yesterday after we talked in person, I texted her first finally. We were flirting….a ton! We were probably back and forth for a good three hours. And then I had to go to swim practice, so i said i would text her when i got out. So three hours later I texted her again. She replied in like six minutes. Then I sent a fairly long message and she never texted me back. She hasn’t messaged me since. Is she playing games? What should I do from here? Should I wait for her to text me again or should I try texting her again soon?

And if you think I should text her today (since its now been a day and a half since she didn’t text me back…what should i say? Just hey whats up?
like dinosaurs—i agree with u….but school is over now hahaha

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Answer by Dominic
It seems to me that you are the clingy type and she is a flirt. Best advice I can give you is leave this chick alone until she texts you. When/If she does, you will probably text her back in seconds right…lol… leave some time between texts because if you don’t… you look like a stalker/needy. If you don’t know by now, girls don’t like that grasshoppa.

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Girl didnt text back?

Question by Jay: Girl didnt text back?
I was sure we were having a good conversation but she never texted back. :/
what are some reasons girls dont text back? if she was interested, she would surely text back, right?

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Answer by Trust me. I’m a Doctor
The number one reason that a girl won’t text back is because she is busy. Lol. That is the problem with texting. Call her tomorrow. Don’t text her again at all today (Even if she texts back) but call her tomorrow.

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Q&A: Texting with girls???? Does the guy always start?

Question by epik806: Texting with girls???? Does the guy always start?
I guess this should probably depend on the individual, but if there is a mutual interest between a girl and a boy(let’s suppose that the interest isn’t too strong yet though), is it still the norm for guys to initiate text messages with girls? In other words, would a girl refrain from texting a guy first even if she is somewhat interested in him?

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Answer by baby g
Text when you feel like it. He will text when he wants to contact you too. Don’t wait.

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Are guys really bad at texting girls or does he hate me?

Question by Ichigo: Are guys really bad at texting girls or does he hate me?
This guy is the one who came onto me and asked me out but now that we’ve been texting he replies with one word answers and sometimes won’t text back :/ what the hell is going on?? Im not the one who came onto him and he acts like he doesnt like talking to me 🙁 is it because guys arent that into texting like girls are or what is happening?

Best answer:

Answer by A
Guys are into texting if they like the girl. Stop texting him altogether.

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How much texting to do with a girl?

Question by Globe: How much texting to do with a girl?
My 3-year relationship ended and, while maybe I was in the stone ages back then, I don’t recall much texting prior to my last relationship. Now, I meet girls and they want to text all the time. I’ll try to call them, I’ll leave a voicemail, and they’ll text me later saying something like “sorry I missed your call” and go right back to texting. I’ve met up with a good majority of the girls I text with like this, but it feels like I’m just stroking her ego and not getting any closer to an actual date.

Am I reading too much into it? How long and how often should I text before I should take a hint? I don’t want to call repeatedly, leave messages, and only get texts back. When it the line drawn, or am I too sensitive?
This is in regards to girls I meet. I am texting a number of them but am not in a relationship. I’m not even dating them yet. I meet them, get their number, and start a conversation. (Sometimes we email first) I am trying to get to going out with them, so I’m a bit shy to say things about their sexy voice or some such.

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Answer by *Clare
I’m not sure why but girls LOVE texting!!!! But I think it can lead to a false relationship. Talking and calling is much better. I think if you’re close to the girl you should just tell her that you like talking, maybe say it like “I like to hear your sweet voice” or something and they’ll get more interested in calls 🙂

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Boys talk ALOT about girls too?

Question by cacao54%: Boys talk ALOT about girls too?
teenage girls talk about boys ALL THE TIME
when we get together, girls night out , etc WATEVER it is, theres always conversations about boys, every little details, what he said, his actions, interpretations blahblah
do guys do that too?
i already know guys talk in a more vulgar way, and dirty but..
do they try to analyze a girl’s action, or what she said, what she did
do they talk about these things as well?

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Answer by Liltwix
Yes we do, most don’t talk about it openly, but we do.

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I found an inappropriate conversation my boyfriend had with another girl should I dump him?

Question by Jenette: I found an inappropriate conversation my boyfriend had with another girl should I dump him?
I’m not sure what to make of his. I have found these conversation my boyfriend had with this girl. I think she’s an ex girlfriend. My boyfriend was the one who text her first and asked her questions like if she found a boyfriend yet, and he said she’s still single but interested in someone. My boyfriend then asked her if she still looks at porn and horny. The girl made it clear that he is aware that he’s in a relationship and long story short he had asked her if he still has feelings for him and she said alittle and she asked him the same question and he told her that he can’t answer that question but that she was a really nice girl. He wants to remain in contact with this girl but this girl said that she has to respect that he has a girlfriend so only contact her once in awhile.
There is no possible way to list their entire conversation but this girl appears to be innocent and she doesn’t want to ruin our relationship.
The girl said that she thinks it would be a good idea not to talk anymore and my boyfriend appeared to want to keep in contact with her for whatever reason.

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Answer by Kennedy
i was in a similar situation.. dump him before it gets worse and hurts even more

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Fear of talking to girls? Need help desperate!?

Question by Alex: Fear of talking to girls? Need help desperate!?
so im 16 years old, Male Im in year 11 and I go to a school with around 1500 students,
All my life I have never had a friend girl, Girls call me cute but it those Sl*tty ones that just talks to EVERYONE no matter what…
I need tips to how to talk to a girl,
please dont respond saying something like “Be nice, start of slow” Yes I know all of that but…
HOW DO YOU start a conversation in the first place? I cant go up to a girl and introduce myself in front of her because thats kinda weird and creepy…. I dont get how guys from lower grades can somehow ‘magically’ get with girls from year 12!!!
I want to talk to some girls ranging from year 10- year 12s…
Unfortunately all of my classes are mostly guys because i do woodwork, Metals, sports etc, with barely any girls…

Anyway I thought of this when i was in the library while staring O.o (creep lol) at those hot year 12 girls…. How would I meet them without looking weird, Also I got a bit of ACNE on my face which destroys my courage also :/…
PEACE OUT BROTHERS AND SISTERS!

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Answer by Chrissy
Smile, say hello and have self confidence. Girls can tell right off the bat at a first glance of a guy if would be worth it or not and that comes from noticing if he has self confidence or not. Being good looking is a plus too. So start working on those things because frankly, if you don’t start changing your ways, you are never going to get laid.

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girl text messages found in fiances phone?

Question by km5686: girl text messages found in fiances phone?
My fiance and I had trouble communicating these past couple of months. Seems all too ironic that our life issues both got the best of us and interfered with our relationship. I had begun to experience severe anxiety all the time. Worrying he was secretely doing something behind my back that I would not be happy about; in my world ignorance is NOT bliss – honesty is appreciated though. So I felt like I was having anxiety again and had a huge HUGE hunch that he was reaching out to someone via text message.I made the mistake and went through his phone and found out he was reaching out to someone named “Debbie” and I read through about 5-7 texts between them and it was very nonchalant referencing another girl named “Katie”. The text began my fiance saying to this “Debbie” girl asking her if she joined a gym, if she liked it and that he was thinking about joining soon too. Debbie responded saying “good. do it” and my fiance said “yes probably will” time goes by and my fiance says “give me a call and we will chat about your friend” and Debbie replies “yes, I will find out Katie’s work schedule for this week, I go back on Wednesday” and my fiance goes, “haha ok, I am seeing a girl right now but we are having some issues so who knows whats going to happen, so wouldn’t be wrong just to meet her” and the woman ends with “right.” My heart broke reading that. I then tried to confront my fiance and he got so angry and said “why are you going through my things again?!” I said I couldn’t help it because I had a feeling he was doing something and this only solidifies that?! He denied it and said Debbie was a friend he knew from work and he does not know who Katie is. That I took it the wrong way. Needless to say, we are no longer engaged. I called it off – I gave the ring back to him, I moved out and back in with my parents. We have done counseling and I have brought the text up and each time he denies it. Saying it was work related for a sale that he loves me and lives with me why would he ever think of meeting anyone else. Part of me believes this, but the anxiety stricken part of me worries what if I wasn’t good enough? I am a pretty 26 year old who has unfortunately had a rough past and a divorce already under my belt. I know what I deserve – I have continued to bring this text message issue up because I cannot let go. I am looking for an honest answer and I would respect that if he said “ya know, at the time you and I were having problems and I did think about meeting her friend, but I am sorry and it was very wrong of me and I won’t do it ever again” BUT I have not heard that!? He is really telling the truth? Or is he just believing his own lie and expecting I do the same. He has told me I need to forget about that text – it was nothing and I blew it out of proportion. BUT any normal loving girl wouldn’t forget about something like that…why can’t he understand this? Any idea???
Thing is – he has admitted he made some mistakes (nothing specific though). Said hes not good as communicating and he has somethings he needs to work on. He wants this to work out and part of me does too – but now my walls are up. Do you think I should give him the benefit of the doubt? I feel like I cannot emotionally move past this text message unless I hear what I feel is the truth.

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Answer by Missy
Sounds like he has moved on and unwilling to make it work with you two if he is already setting dates with other women. Ditch this guy, he is isn’t interested in commitment apparently. Good thing you found out now, and not after you married him!

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Q&A: why don’t girls ever text me?

Question by : why don’t girls ever text me?
I get with girls like alll the time…i have a ton of friends that are girls…and im not a bad lookin kid…but girls never text me besides like my best girl friend. Why don’t they ever fuckin text me

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Answer by Ryan B
cause your a psycho nut job probably

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